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5 biggest distractions in relationships

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Do you notice that your partner isn’t as committed to the relationship as they used to be?

Your partner may seem distracted and distant. You might have asked what was wrong, but they said nothing. Yet you’ve noticed significant changes.

Do you find yourself scrolling through social media and laughing at TikTok videos while your partner is right there?

Constantly using social media and gadgets like video games can create a significant rift in a relationship, leaving your partner feeling neglected and distant.

For men, football season can cause a lot of distraction and space in a relationship.

It’s important to disconnect from technology and focus on quality time with your partner.

You could also pick an activity involving technology you both love like sharing reels on Instagram or TiktTok and playing videos games with each other.

If your partner is stressed at work or is faced with a lot of pressure, they can withdraw from you.

Balancing a demanding job or career with a relationship can be exhausting, leaving little time or energy for your partner.

Work stress causes tension and affects the quality of time spent together.

If you are always hanging out with the ‘boys’ or the ‘girls’, that will barely leave any time for the relationship.

While friendships should not be neglected, putting too much emphasis on social activities outside of the relationship might lead to neglect of your partner.

This might lead to feelings of jealousy or insecurity.

A recent or past ex can be a major distraction in a relationship.

Whether through past traumas, maintaining contact, or any form of communication, exes can become significant distractions.

If these distractions persist, trust can be eroded, leading to the relationship’s demise.

If they meet someone new who they fancy, they may spend considerable time trying to win their affection, and that just means less time for you.

Relationships can be strained due to financial concerns, debt, or money issues.

When one person is worried about their financial situation; it can keep couples from enjoying life and their partner’s companionship.

Prioritize your partner.

It’s important to make time for your partner by scheduling special dates, outings and activities so you can spend quality time with each other.

If these issues arise in a relationship, it’s important to address them openly and make necessary changes.

Failure to do so can lead to the relationship’s downfall.

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Deji Adeyanju, wife welcome baby girl

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Deji Adeyanju, the political activist and convener of the human rights group Concerned Nigerians, and his wife Nana Bello have welcomed a baby girl.

The human rights activist took to his X account on Sunday evening to announce the arrival of his first child with Nana.

Adeyanju also appreciated God for their bundle of joy while expressing his delight.

“God has just blessed my wife and I with a beautiful baby girl. And we are grateful and delighted. The Lord has done it finally, finally, finally!” he wrote.

Adeyanju and Nana tied the knot in December 2023 at Shehu Musa Yar’Adua Centre while the reception took place at the International Conference Centre (ICC) in Garki, Abuja.

Nana had described their union as “two hearts with one love”. She also prayed for God’s love to be the “centre of our marriage”.

“Through God’s grace, our paths intertwined, and now we stand on the threshold of our forever. In these moments captured, I see His love shining through us, guiding us towards a lifetime of faith, hope, and love,” she wrote on Instagram.

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Davido’s manager Asa Asika proposes to girlfriend

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Asa Asika, the manager of Davido, the Nigerian music star, and Leona Adesanya, his girlfriend, are engaged.

The proposal, captured in a viral video on social media, shows the talent manager leading Adesanya to the venue where he popped the question.

In the video, friends and well-wishers could be seen cheering in the background as Davido proudly said, “He is my boy”.

Fans and industry colleagues have flooded social media with wishes for the couple.

Asika dated Florence Otedola, popularly known as DJ Cuppy, from 2018 until they split in 2020.

He has made a significant impact on the Nigerian music scene.

He has managed top artistes such as Davido, Naeto C, YQ, and R2Bees.

In 2016, Asika founded The Plug, a talent management company.

The company expanded in 2022 through a merger with TopBoy Entertainment, founded by Tobi Mohammed.

The Plug now encompasses music publishing, sports management, and production.

It has collaborated with notable figures including Davido, Henry Onyekuru, Asisat Oshoala, CKay, Victony, Tobi Amusan, King Promise, BOJ, Bella Shmurda, Focalistic, MazexMxtreme, Raebel, ShineTTW, and Uchenna Kanu.

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Basketmouth addresses engagement rumour after cryptic post

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Basketmouth, the ace Nigerian comedian, has addressed the widely circulated reports of himself in a potential new relationship.

On Thursday, the 45-year-old funnyman shared an intimate photo with Miz Vick, the media personality.

“About to step into the next chapter of my life @mizvick,” he captioned the post, suggesting he may have found love.

Miz Vick also reposted the picture on her Instagram story.

Their fans and colleagues took to the post’s comment section to congratulate them. Rumours of their engagement also went viral on social media.

Sharing an update on Friday, the comedian clarified that his previous Instagram post with Miz Vick was for an upcoming movie, not a confirmation of their relationship.

Basketmouth also shared a teaser of the film titled ‘A Ghetto Love Story’ while they both revealed it is their first feature-length film.

He also disclosed that the star-studded movie will be released on November 22.

On why he used Vick’s photo to tease the project, Basketmouth said, “Oh yes, it is called clout chasing”.

The TV host asked, “and I had to take the fall for it”. The comedian replied, “no, nobody fell now. Na them fall… them fall for am,” the comedian said after which he burst into laughter.

Basketmouth separated from Elsie, his ex-wife. The pair tied the knot in 2010. They also share three children.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

She has widespread experiences across different professions and skills, which includes experiences in; Marketing, Media, Broadcasting, Brand and Event Management, Administration and Management with prior stints at MTN, NAPIMS-NNPC, GLOBAL FLEET OIL AND GAS, LTV, Silverbird and a host of others

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