Health
How to survive the rainy season in Lagos without a car
So it’s a cold September month in the city of Lagos and it’s drizzling.
You can smell the rain in the air and the cold breeze sweeps into your room as your alarm rings to get you out of bed.
A thought creeps into your mind to curl back into bed and call in sick, but appraisals are around the corner. So you get out of bed and take a quick shower ready to brave a rainy, wet Lagos.
As you step out of the house, a slight drizzle begins and you ponder whether to go back in and get an umbrella, or just brave the weather and see how it goes as you are already running late.
Common sense prevailed and you went back in, thankful for your decision as the rain intensified on your approach to the bus stop.
Surviving the city of Lagos during the rainy season requires a certain skill and knowledge set that I will share with you.
White pants/ skirts are outlawed during this period. Except expressly required by your job, white tops and shirts are also to be discarded during the rains.
I know white shirts are very desirable, especially on Mondays; please do not fall for the temptation of wearing them.
The risk of water being splashed on you is very high and you do not want to appear at work with a stained shirt.
You have to know the exact topography of any road that you regularly walk on this season. Knowledge of where the road ends and drainage begins (Lagos has mostly open drainages so you can fall into them) is also necessary.
Also know the exact location of manholes, covers of which may have been stolen. Look out for potholes, these puddles are filled with water, and Lagos drivers are not endowed with the spirit of kindness and consideration for pedestrians.
In the event you fall foul of the puddle water, learn to hurl abuse and the symbolic hurling of stones in the direction of the erring vehicle as a Lagosian would do.
Decide early on before the rains come if you would wear a raincoat or carry an umbrella during the season, both have their plus and minus.
The umbrella – preferably medium-sized- is most functional, as it keeps you dry and is easy to fold away in a bus.
You have to master the fine art of folding it away, just as the inevitable struggle for an approaching danfo bus begins so as to avoid causing injury to others.
This is except if you board the well-organized BRT buses, in which case you can keep it open until you get on the bus.
Sharp Lagos business has produced a nylon Raincoat that comes in many colors and is readily available at bus stops in the event the rain catches you unawares.
The only issue is taking them off when you board a bus; as I am not sure other passengers would appreciate a wet seatmate.
Befriend colleagues or neighbours with cars that ply your route ahead of time. The rainy season is not the time for ego, grudges, perceived slights, and temper tantrums.
As much as you can, try and get into the good graces of your work colleagues and neighbors who can drop and pick you up thereby saving you the vagaries of a wet Lagos.
Monitor the weather reports on the news and on your phone, but also learn to “smell” and look out for rain.
The smelling part is something your senses pick up over time when you live in a coastal city such as Lagos.
It’s very normal to see Lagosians looking up at the sky intermittently to notice any swift change in the weather as they go about their business.
Be nice to small shop and stall owners along your route home (especially the distances you have to walk). You never know the day a sudden downpour will necessitate you to take refuge in Mama Nkechi’s shop.
Invest in rubber footwear to tread water freely and not worry about damage to your leather shoes.
Leave your shoes at work or pack them in a bag to keep them dry. There is an assortment of rubber slides, shoes, rainboots, and all available to meet your fashion needs.
Have a change of dry clothes handy. No umbrella or raincoat can insulate you from the Lagos downpour when it’s loose.
Bus shelters are a rarity in these parts and having dry clothes is insurance for such times.
Lastly, pray for the favor of the gods so you can buy a car. Lagos rain is not going to stop or relent anytime soon and you cannot infinitely rely on the goodwill of others.
Health
Five ways to rid your home of ants
Ants are just one of the many pests that can launch an attack on your home.
The tiny insects are particularly attracted to the scent of sugar or grease. The scent of other foods may also attract ants which is why it is imperative to promptly clean spills.
Without proper management, ants can overrun your home.
Here are five ways to rid your home of ants.
Cucumber peels
Cucumber peels can serve as an excellent ant repellent.
Put them around areas affected by ants and you will notice that they will disappear in no time.
Salt
Ordinary salt is the safest remedy to keep ants away.
Use the mineral as a barricade to prevent the ants from crossing the designated area.
Duct tape
This can be useful to save your plants or keep ants from climbing your table or bed legs.
Wrap the tape around the base of plant or table leg with the sticky side outwardly. It will gum all the ants, and they will either die or be unable to move and fall prey to other insects.
Boiling water
If you can manage to find the source of the ants in or around your compound, you can pour a kettle of boiling water directly onto the ant hills to protect your home.
Vinegar
Vinegar diluted in water used to clean surfaces helps in eradicating ants due to its fungicidal and insecticidal properties.
Health
Six tips for coping after miscarriage
A miscarriage can be a traumatic experience one that can be difficult to overcome.
The pain that comes with pregnancy loss is indescribable. So, here are six steps that most people find helpful on how to recover/cope after a miscarriage.
1. Process Your Emotions
Take time to process your emotions and learn about your grieving process.
A miscarriage is a major emotional loss and so, it is normal to mourn this loss the same way you would mourn any other loss.
Try to familiarise yourself with your grieving process so that you will understand that what you are feeling is normal.
Usually, the first stage of the emotional grief is denial. You might find yourself thinking, “This isn’t really happening; it’s a bad dream that’d go away soon.”
The second stage is feeling anger, guilt, or depression and it features common thoughts like, “This isn’t fair!” or “I did everything right, why me?”
The last stage is acceptance. You will definitely still feel sadness, but you will begin to accept the reality of the situation.
2. Be patient with yourself
Keep in mind that this emotional experience is different for everyone.
Everyone will glide through the different stages at their own pace. You might coast quickly through the denial stage, but then find yourself stuck in anger.
Do not beat yourself up. Rather, make efforts to be kind to yourself.
Take a moment each day to acknowledge your emotions; just don’t judge them and give yourself the time you need to heal and process your emotions.
Most importantly, know that your experience is your own.
You may have friends or family members who have gone through a miscarriage of their own and naturally, they will want to give you advice on how to handle it.
It’s fine if you want to listen, but it’s okay to feel like your situation is different.
It’s fine to tell them, “Thank you for your concern and advice, but I really need to handle this in my own way.” Most people would understand and be respectful of your wishes.
3. Be okay with setbacks
Healing is a process and not necessarily a destination.
As the days go by, you will make progress and feel better- time heals all wounds. However, you are also likely to experience some bumps in the road. Setbacks aren’t palatable, but you can get through them.
Maybe you experience a setback when a friend tells you that she is pregnant. After such loss, this is going to be hard for you to hear.
Remind yourself that you can still be happy for your friend while feeling sad about your own loss.
If you feel yourself sliding back into sadness for a few days, that’s perfectly fine. Be patient with yourself and know that you’ll move forward again when you’re ready to.
4. Make your own choices
You are likely to find that well-meaning friends and relatives will come offering a lot of (unsolicited) advice during this time.
First, remind yourself that they mean well. However, this doesn’t mean that you have to listen to everything they say.
For instance, your mum may suggest that it is time to give 0ut all of the baby clothes that you bought.
Eventually, this might be something that you want to consider but if you’re not ready now, don’t do it.
It is your right to say, “Thank you for your thoughts, but I’m not ready to take that step right now. Kindly respect my pace.”
5. Speak to your doctor
Some miscarriages can also be difficult to deal with physically.
It might require you to undergo a surgical evacuation procedure. It is also normal to feel the effects of a hormonal imbalance at this time.
This is why you should talk to your doctor so that you can start the process of healing your body right.
Ask your doctor if there are certain precautions you need to take.
You can ask for advice in handling any bleeding and dealing with mood swings.
Don’t hold back on asking for any support that you need. He/she could also point you to support groups if they happen to know any.
6. Keep your body healthy
You need plenty of rest to heal physically.
Plus, good physical health is directly related to your emotional health.
Ensure that you are getting the rest that you need to heal. If necessary (and possible), consider taking a brief time off from work. They’d understand.
See to it that you are eating a healthy diet; focus on whole grains, fruits and veggies, and protein.
Do not forget get part of being healthy is communicating with your partner. Your spouse will also be going through a difficult time. They too might be experiencing sadness, anger, or grief.
Take time to be there for, and talk to one another.
Be open and honest about your feelings. If you are feeling depressed, don’t be afraid or shy to admit so.
Your partner at such a time could be your best source of support, so don’t be scared to lean on them.
Health
Eating too much meat could cause heart failure in older women
Women above 50 who consume a lot of protein stand a high risk of heart failure, researchers say.
The risk becomes even more increased when the source of the protein is meat.
Although the study did not prove exactly how a high protein diet affects the health of the heart, postmenopausal women with the most protein in their diet had a 60 percent increased risk of heart failure, as opposed to those who ate little protein, the study found.
Mohomad Firas Barbour, an internist at Brown University’s Alpert medical school and memorial hospital of Rhode Island in Pawtucket, said that most of the risks appear to come from animal protein.
In comparison, the women who got most of their protein from vegetable sources appeared to have a nearly 20 percent reduced risk of heart failure, Barbour said.
“The higher total dietary protein intake, that will increase the risk of heart failure, but higher vegetable protein intake appeared to be protective against heart failure,” he added.
The findings have been presented at the American Heart Association annual meeting in New Orleans, U.S.
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