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Educational Training is very important but you see Home and Personal trainings, are the MOST important while Societal training, is just by the WAY
Home training (from proper parents not gbantueyo parent o) is the most important because, you will be taught all kinds of mannerism. In Home training, you will be taught how to talk, pray, go to church, wake up early, eat, walk, cook, small dance, bath, wear clothes and shoes, sweep and be clean, iron your clothes and arrange them well in the cupboard (olden days name for closet) pronounce small small words while education handles the larger part, respect and how to talk elders or younger ones, behave very well by being caring and sensitive, greet people either by prostrating or kneeling down, how to speak your dialect(except for english parents), go on errands to a particular house and no branching to gossip????, go to the market either to be a seller (like me then o????????) or be a buyer. You see for Home training, the training is endless and in as much as we have the above manners,, we also have parents who have spoilt their kinds or their kids refused to take the trainings and now, they lack manners and unfortunately, Education can’t teach grown ups manners but rather.
In Education, you will be taught how to learn or speak other languages aside your dialect, read, write, research, compete, little sport, be structured, guidelines for operations, professional ways of eating and dressing. In a nutshell, Education teaches you how to be ready for THE FUTURE and then, you keep upgrading and advancing????????
Societal or Society training only teaches you ONE thing and do you know what that thing is? Society teaches you how they want you to LIVE for them without seeking your approval for your own life o. Society doesn’t care if you are happy or not so far you do the things that make them happy when need be and hailers will hail you(i.e Society is a USER). Infact, what Society does majorly is to send you on errands e.g laugh like this, dance like this, clap like this, wear clothes like this, post this and don’t post that. So, don’t let the society fool you because, society is OTHERS around you aside yourself. Shikena
Personal training, firstly, you need to come to full terms with your Home/Educational trainings as your major keys to LIVING and OPERATING. And as for the Societal training, its your choice to vet what the society has taught you or still teaching you and use the right ones that make you happy and fulfilled so you don’t start running faster than your shadow. Its also during your Personal training, you acquire more education et knowledge in all fields you deem fit to better your mode of operation, you teach yourself how to either be patient or impatient, how to love or hate, learn to appreciate people or dispense them, to be proud or down to earth, be calm or aggressive, choose the type of live and friends you wanna associate with, determine your kind of married or single lives, how to carry yourself, believe in God or not, have kids or not, be either caring or mean loving or wicked, be sensitive or insensitive, behave like an island or have a team, trust or distrust, full of yourself, yeah yourself whether to remain bushy or modern, you decide whether to be rich, average or poor. In fact, all the good, average or bad mannerism are implemented during this Personal training except for the influence of some good/bad parents. In a nutshell, Personal training is also the training which tells you if your fully ready for the FUTURE or not.
So in conclusion I will say, no matter how well EDUCATED you are (if you like read all the books in this life), if you don’t have HOME and PERSONAL MANNERS, YOU ARE JUST A PLAN SHEET OF PAPER and also, do not let your past experiences change your QUALITY trainings rather, LEARN FROM IT AND USE IT TO INSPIRE OR MOTIVATE YOUR INCOMING EXPERIENCES as NOBODY IS PERFECT.
And as incoming PARENTS, remember to teach your children the above and don’t forget to FOLLOW UP to be sure they are using it else, 90% blame will still come back to you because, people will assume you didn’t TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN WELL even if na your children no accept your training
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The Senator representing Anambra South in the National Assembly, Ifeanyi Ubah, is dead.
Ubah, who was the Chief Executive Officer of Capital Oil, was said to have died in a hotel in London, the United Kingdom, on Saturday.
He would have been 53 on September 3.
Senate spokesperson, Yemi Adaramodu, confirmed Ubah’s death to our correspondent on Saturday.
He said, “It’s confirmed, but I am sending an official statement soon.”
Ubah, who was re-elected into the 10th Senate under the Young Peoples Party, had last year defected to the All Progressive Congress.
In September 2022, Ubah escaped assassination when he was attacked by gunmen on his way to Nnewi in Enugwu-Ukwu in Anambra State.
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JUST IN: Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun joins ancestors at 81
The Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun has joined his ancestors after a brief illness.
He joined his ancestors at the age of 81.
It was gathered that the late monarch was taken to the hospital Wednesday morning having stayed indoor throughout Tuesday on account of slight malaria fever, though, he was hail and hearty on Monday during which he personally received few guests that paid him congratulatory visits on his second year anniversary on that day.
Making this announcement was the Baba-Kekere Olubadan and his younger brother, Dr Kola Balogun in a statement by the Personal Assistant (Media) to the late monarch, Oladele Ogunsola.
According to the statement, Dr. Balogun disclosed that Oba Balogun would be buried at his Aliiwo ancestral home by 4.00pm on Friday according to Islamic rites just as he said that the State Governor Seyi Makinde, though already verbally informed, would be formally notified early in the morning.
The late Olubadan was the first most educated to have emerged as Ibadan monarch, a British trained P.hd holder, a former university lecturer, former member of management staff of Shell British Petroleum, former gubernatorial candidate of the defunct Nigeria People’s Party, NPP, former Senator and a successful business man.
His last official outing was the Olubadan Advisory Council’s meeting which he presided over last Saturday where the decision to derobed Mogaji Akinsola, Olawale Oladoja was taken.
He however, on Tuesday instructed the Ekerin Olubadan, Oba Hamidu Ajibade to midwife a small committee to deliberate on last Friday’s decision on what should be the position of Ibadan Zone in the proposed newly reconstituted Oyo State Council of Obas and Chiefs.
The decision of the small committee was earlier on Thursday ratified by the Olubadan Advisory Council at a meeting presided over by Otun Olubadan and the former governor of Oyo State, High Chief Rashidi Ladoja and was to be taken to the late Oba Balogun for his signature Friday morning so as to meet the deadline for submission to the state Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy Matters later in the day.
The late Olubadan is survived by wives, children and grandchildren.
Announcing the passage of the monarch, Governor Makinde, in a statement, stated that Olubadan, who joined his ancestors late Thursday evening at the University College Hospital, UCH, Ibadan, described him as an epitome of royal excellence and a great achiever, who made great marks on Ibadanland in just a little over two years of his reign.
He expressed his condolences to the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland and Oyo State, praying to God to grant repose to the soul of the deceased monarch.
Makinde said: “With total submission to the will of God, I announce the passing unto glory of our father, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr. Mohood Lekan Balogun, Alli Okunmade II, the 42nd Olubadan of Ibadanland.
“A mighty Iroko has fallen; Oba Dr. Balogun has joined the ancestors.
“In Kabiyesi, Ibadanland had a cosmopolitan and well-experienced Olubadan, who made indelible marks on the sands of history and achieved greatly within a short while.
“On behalf of the Government and good People of Oyo State, I condole with the immediate family of the Oba Dr. Balogun, the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland.
“It is my prayer that God grants repose to the soul of our late monarch.”
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