Educational Training is very important but you see Home and Personal trainings, are the MOST important while Societal training, is just by the WAY

Home training (from proper parents not gbantueyo parent o) is the most important because, you will be taught all kinds of mannerism. In Home training, you will be taught how to talk, pray, go to church, wake up early, eat, walk, cook, small dance, bath, wear clothes and shoes, sweep and be clean, iron your clothes and arrange them well in the cupboard (olden days name for closet) pronounce small small words while education handles the larger part, respect and how to talk elders or younger ones, behave very well by being caring and sensitive, greet people either by prostrating or kneeling down, how to speak your dialect(except for english parents), go on errands to a particular house and no branching to gossip????, go to the market either to be a seller (like me then o????????) or be a buyer. You see for Home training, the training is endless and in as much as we have the above manners,, we also have parents who have spoilt their kinds or their kids refused to take the trainings and now, they lack manners and unfortunately, Education can’t teach grown ups manners but rather.

In Education, you will be taught how to learn or speak other languages aside your dialect, read, write, research, compete, little sport, be structured, guidelines for operations, professional ways of eating and dressing. In a nutshell, Education teaches you how to be ready for THE FUTURE and then, you keep upgrading and advancing????????

Societal or Society training only teaches you ONE thing and do you know what that thing is? Society teaches you how they want you to LIVE for them without seeking your approval for your own life o. Society doesn’t care if you are happy or not so far you do the things that make them happy when need be and hailers will hail you(i.e Society is a USER). Infact, what Society does majorly is to send you on errands e.g laugh like this, dance like this, clap like this, wear clothes like this, post this and don’t post that. So, don’t let the society fool you because, society is OTHERS around you aside yourself. Shikena

Personal training, firstly, you need to come to full terms with your Home/Educational trainings as your major keys to LIVING and OPERATING. And as for the Societal training, its your choice to vet what the society has taught you or still teaching you and use the right ones that make you happy and fulfilled so you don’t start running faster than your shadow. Its also during your Personal training, you acquire more education et knowledge in all fields you deem fit to better your mode of operation, you teach yourself how to either be patient or impatient, how to love or hate, learn to appreciate people or dispense them, to be proud or down to earth, be calm or aggressive, choose the type of live and friends you wanna associate with, determine your kind of married or single lives, how to carry yourself, believe in God or not, have kids or not, be either caring or mean loving or wicked, be sensitive or insensitive, behave like an island or have a team, trust or distrust, full of yourself, yeah yourself whether to remain bushy or modern, you decide whether to be rich, average or poor. In fact, all the good, average or bad mannerism are implemented during this Personal training except for the influence of some good/bad parents. In a nutshell, Personal training is also the training which tells you if your fully ready for the FUTURE or not.

So in conclusion I will say, no matter how well EDUCATED you are (if you like read all the books in this life), if you don’t have HOME and PERSONAL MANNERS, YOU ARE JUST A PLAN SHEET OF PAPER and also, do not let your past experiences change your QUALITY trainings rather, LEARN FROM IT AND USE IT TO INSPIRE OR MOTIVATE YOUR INCOMING EXPERIENCES as NOBODY IS PERFECT.

And as incoming PARENTS, remember to teach your children the above and don’t forget to FOLLOW UP to be sure they are using it else, 90% blame will still come back to you because, people will assume you didn’t TRAIN YOUR CHILDREN WELL even if na your children no accept your training

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