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A Rev. Sister and Onitsha commercial sex workers’ journey to redemption (Photos)

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Prostitution by young girls and ladies has become a thriving business in Onitsha, the commercial city of Anambra State, and its environs.

The hot spots are Nsugbe, Obosi, Nkpor, Ogidi, all in Idemili North Local Government Area; Nkwelle-Ezunaka and Ogbunike in Oyi Local Government; Umueri and Aguleri in Anambra East; Oba, Umuoji and Akwaukwu, in Idemili South, and Okpoko, Odoekpe and Atani in Ogbaru Local Government, all in Anambra State.

One common and striking thing about the communities mentioned is that they are all suburbs of Onitsha, the commercial city of Anambra State, where business activities thrive. As a result, the commercial activities and developments that made Onitsha a town everybody wants to come and settle to do business or learn trade, are fast affecting the communities with development and a vibrant social life.

As this happens, people with good intentions and determination to work hard and earn money through trading, and other business activities, also troop into Onitsha and these developing suburbs to earn a living through genuine and fowl means.

Many of the people who troop to Onitsha and these developing suburbs to settle are girls and ladies who use their body to earn money from traders, artisans, businessmen and public servants, whom they feel can easily part with money for their body.

This development has not settled well with some people and they are determined to change the dirty narrative among these young girls and ladies. One of such change agents is a non-governmental Catholic Church organisation— Save Young Girls Motherhood Foundation, SYGMF, founded by Rev. Sister Dorothy Okoli of Missionary Sisters of St John Paul II of Mary.

The NGO swung into action to check the increasing rate of young girls and ladies finding jobs in prostitution, with visits to some of the brothels to counsel the inmates.

Speaking with newsmen, Rev. Sister Okoli said that commercial sex workers can be rehabilitated to be responsible citizens, adding that the aim of setting up SYGMF, was to rehabilitate and empower commercial sex workers. She said the ladies went into the trade due to lack of care and assistance by their families, government and the society.

She said: “We are a non-governmental organisation with a view and aim of assisting our young girls who, on receiving counseling, decide to pull out from the trade for us to help them realise their worth in the society, gain confidence in themselves to enable them get rid of all insecurities they might have about themselves.

“From our discovery, most of them are dropouts from various schools due to their poor background and poverty of their parents, who cannot afford to give them basic education that would have projected their future.

“We wish to reintegrate them back to the society and to engage them with meaningful skill initiatives that will sustain and project their futures.”

Visibly sad Rev. Sr. Okoli alleged that in the cause of her interactions with the ladies, she discovered that some men use fake promises to deceive and have some of them, thereby destroying their future and destiny.

Reminded about the danger involved in visiting brothels and interacting with the inmates, due to the unruly behaviours and violent activities of some of them, who are also drug addicts, she said that she receives inspiration through prayers before she embarks on visiting, speaking and convincing them on the need to quit the trade.

“First and foremast, as we all know, this job we are doing is a risky venture. It is not an easy job. But because of our approach to them and even the people housing them, the brothel owners, we get their attention. I am a teacher; we apply different methods and approaches, we know they can be wild sometimes.

“However, this project or job is a passion to me and my team. I have been dealing with them and as a result appreciate their experiences. I take courage through prayers before I decide to visit any of the brothels, coupled with the acquired tactics, and approach as a teacher.

“First of all, I make them friends, and I make sure that I do not just go there preaching to them or telling them their sins. I always go as friend with food, snacks and other gift items and we exchange banters and that is why whenever I enter into those houses, it must always be with smiling face. It must be with gifts and food to entertain them and they joyfully welcome me.

“With that they get attracted to me and I will explain my mission and reason for coming. We talk like sisters and relations and they open up to me on their problems and challenges and sometimes we talk to the point that they begin to cry and some will be begging to go home with me and never to go back to the trade,” says the nun.

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Mixed reactions trail ‘Jesus Christ is not God’ banner displayed at Lekki central mosque

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Netizens across social media platforms have begun to condemn a banner about Jesus Christ displayed at the gate of the Lekki Central Mosque in Lagos State.

The inscription on the banner which went viral on Wednesday read, “Jesus Christ is not God. He is a Prophet and Messenger of God!”

However, reactions have trailed the message, with some arguing that the motive behind it was blasphemy.

Some others, however, maintained that the message has been affirmed by pastors many times.

A Nigerian actress, Wumi Tuase, took to her X and expressed displeasure saying, “I don’t like to get into religious conversations but I found it very weird that Lekki Central Mosque has this in front of their gate.”

A user who tweeted with the handle #Fisayo Ojabodu wrote, “You don’t see the banner is disrespectful to other people’s religion. And is propagating foolish agenda.”

One user who identified with the handle #Adesuwa noted that this action is nothing but blasphemy.

Another user who identified as #FS Yusuf tweeted, “Christianity is actually a religion of peace.

“In the last two decades, my family church has been set on fire by Muslim extremists for ridiculous reasons such as religious extremism and Buhari losing his 2011 election.

“This is the reality for hundreds of churches and also innocent individuals accused of blasphemy. If this write-up was done by a Christian organisation, we won’t be here typing. Until we learn to uphold tolerance, we can’t make progress as a pluralistic society.”

One Silva Bella on X said, “It’s not about Christianity is a religion of peace or not … Jesus is not God. I have read the Bible a lot of time and it obvious but I can’t still get why people call Jesus God. He’s the son which means God is the father.”

“Jesus is God, Jesus is your King and Jesus will pass judgment on all. For judgment will only be fair through him that has walked in your flesh and felt your pain,” GeradTheGreat opined.

“We are so peaceful, and we will remain peaceful, we don’t fight for our God, He fights for himself,” Joycccc wrote on Meta.

Another user on X, Expope said, “The late Deborah they set on fire has not done up to this before they all joined hands to terminate her life.”

On X, another user identified as #ChristTheLighhouse opined, “We as Christians accept criticism, backlash, rejection, and even insults. Our Lord and saviour whom we believe and serve received more up to the point of death! He prayed for unbelievers and his persecutors and killers.

“The gospel of repentance and conversation into Christianity and acceptance of Jesus as ones personal Lord and Saviour is never by force, war, coercion or propaganda…it’s by the gentle acts of the Holy Spirit of God.That is the game changer. It’s a personal experience. Ask Saul (later Paul) of Tarsus!”

On the contrary, one Muhammad Shaikhan said, “The beauty of this drama between Christians and Muslims is that everyone of us knows that God is one. God is always a God. We can’t substitute God with anybody. The argument is all about the teaching of Jesus and that of Prophet Muhammad, Peace be upon them. So I don’t vex.”

Abdul’fattah Muhdl’awwal said, “Jesus himself never said he is God.

“You and the likes are the ones calling him God. Hence the quote in that banner is the fact and not blasphemous.”

One Olawale on Meta said, “The message on the banner is true.”

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Tobi Adegboyega debunks anti-gay allegations, says persecution politically motivated

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Tobi Adegboyega, the founder of the SPAC Nation church in the United Kingdom (UK), says his current travails are politically motivated.

The Nigerian pastor, who is at the centre of a UK deportation saga, said the persecution started after a member of parliament (MP) from his district alleged that he was advocating against the gay community.

In an interview on Channels Television’s Politics Today on Monday, Adegboyega said the MP reported the church’s activities to the police.

He said the police could not investigate the allegations against him and the church because they were “all nonsensical”.

“You can’t claim that our proof is inflated without telling us why. The UK Metropolitan Police gathered charities in the UK and asked them to go to SPAC Nation. I wrote solutions for the home office,” he said.

“Truths must be backed with facts. For 10 years, we have been persecuted without one single move.

“Allegations without indictment, so why shouldn’t we suspect biases?

“We have a situation where people believed I was supporting certain political parties because one person believed that my agenda was to go against the gay community, and from that day, we have been to reconciliation meetings.

“The person wrote that my evangelical zeal was to make sure that the gay community in that area does not survive.

“He took dossiers of evidence against the church to the sacred ground of the parliament and submitted it to the internal affairs minister, who submitted it to the police, and the police came back to say that they couldn’t even investigate one thing because it was all nonsensical.

“The person is an MP, and the same person is sitting behind these things, making sure that he is not defeated.

“If there is any honour left in his system, what such men should do is apologise unless you’re saying the police authority of Great Britain is inept, which would be quite unfortunate.”

Adegboyega dismissed the deportation case against him, stressing that the focus should be on the contribution of his church to the safety and businesses of people in the UK.

“The country cannot deny it. There is no prime minister who can deny the result of the work we have done. When the metropolitan police came to the church, that was about three years ago; they sat down, and they came to learn,” he said.

“It is our result of how many lives have been saved, how many knives we have taken off the street, and how many businesses we created for this economy.

“We had a few hours of the tribunal, and in the tribunal, I was given a few hours to talk about the SPAC Nation, and we defended the honour of the SPAC Nation.”

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Renowned Islamic scholar, Muyideen Bello, is dead

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The Muslim community has been thrown into mourning following the passing of one of its most revered figures, Alhaji Muyideen Bello.

Born in 1940 in Ibadan, Alhaji Bello was widely respected for his profound teachings and unwavering dedication to Islamic scholarship.

The announcement of his demise was made by another prominent Islamic scholar, Alfa Aribidesi of At-Tawdeeh Islamic Da’awah on Friday morning.

Corroborating the news of the demise, popular cleric and follower of the late Bello, who is also an Islamic singer, Alhaji Basit Olarenwaju popularly known as Aponle Anabi also shared the image of the 84 year old scholar with tearful emojis on his official Facebook page on Friday.

While details surrounding his death remain unclear, his passing marks the end of an era for a man who spent decades shaping the lives of countless individuals with his wisdom, guidance, and spiritual leadership.

Multiple reports from local media in Oyo State have also reported the demise of the revered cleric.

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