When you actively engage in ways to trigger the sexual and romantic interest of your partner, you are actually doing him a favour by helping him to rediscover all the little things about you that made him fall in love in the first place.
It is easy to forget them, take things for granted and let relationships go stale. Think of it as a gift, and watch his appreciation take form.
Here are all the ways to make your boyfriend want you more
#1: Get touchy-feely!
Just touch him! We are talking localised, and we are talking unprovoked.
When you you touch him or brush by an intimate place on his body, especially in public situations, you immediately pull his mind away from what’s going on around you, and his focus will be 100% on you.
How to do it: Reach in his trouser pocket without asking. You might be looking for keys, his phone, or just want to warm up your hand. His attention will immediately be on the fact that your hand is so near his penis.
Team it with a knowing smile or kiss, and you’ve caught him.
Alternatively, slip your hand into his back pocket while you’re walking down the street, to give him a sexy sense of feeling possessed. He’ll also enjoy the erotic sensation of his bum being stroked while he is walking.
Placing your hand on his inner thigh when you sitting on the bus is also a good one, and a little squeeze won’t go amiss!
Less is always more. When you give a guy everything on a plate, there is no challenge, no mystery.
This applies to your everyday conversation. You don’t have to give him all the nitty gritty details of your day or your night out. That is what your girlfriends are for.
Even if he asks, don’t be tempted to go into detail. Give minimal information and he will make the effort to probe you for more.
That’s when you know you’ve got his full attention, and he is more likely to actually be interested in what you do tell him because he is specifically digging for the info!
The less you tell him about your life, the more he will thinking about you and wondering about what you are doing. Before you know it, you will be all he thinks about.
#3: Encourage attention from other men
This is less about making your man jealous, and more about making him feelgood! When I suggest for you to encourage attention from other men, I don’t mean make your own man feel insecure.
Use the opportunity to show him you’re his, and you will make him feel proud. All men have a primal instinct to compete against each other, especially when it comes to women.
If he knows he’s got the woman all the other guys are ogling, his ego will be swelling. Guys always seem to be a lot more clingy and affectionate too when they know there are half a dozen other men showing interest in their woman! Milk it.
A man is more likely to notice and feel attracted to a change in your appearance if it is obviously different to your usual look.
Change is exciting because it is new and it makes him feel like he has discovered a new facet of your personality.
If you want a change and you want to take advantage of the chance to grab his attention while you’re at it, drastically change your hair colour and you will feel and act like a different person.
He’ll immediately sense the sexy difference in your personality, and the sexy confidence, and be turned on by the sexual implication of dating, let’s say, a redhead!
If you don’t want to go as far as a permanent change then look to your wardrobe and put together a sexy new look. Some noticeably high heels should do the trick if you normally wear flats.
#5: Revive old scents
Scents can have a powerful effect on memory. The familiar smell of leather can transport you straight back to all the fun times you had making out in your first boyfriend’s posh car.
The smell of fish and chips can take you back to dirty weekends away by the coast. Try digging out an old perfume or shampoo you used to use when you and your boyfriend first started dating.
The familiar scent is sure to trigger a few memories and get him reminiscing of your first exciting months together.
Remember: A familiar scent works like a sensory time-machine. Use them when you want some more attention from your man!
Make him work for everything he wants. Don’t just give him what he wants when he wants it.
When he has complete and unquestioned access to something, it becomesboring and predictable. Is that what you want your relationship to be? No, of course not, so don’t always be available when it is convenient for him.
Go out of your way to delay. If he wants to see you, make sure you have a few things you need to attend to first, or make the arrangement so that it’s not definite, to keep him on his toes.
It might seem a bit crazy, especially is you’re top-heavy, but if you can afford to do every once in a while, you will be sure to get his immediate attention!
And by the way, I’m not just talking about taking your bra off in bed, I’m talking about not wearing a bra underneath your clothes during the day, so that your nipples show through when there is a draft, and there is a bit of extra bounce when you strut down the street next him!
Go bra-less when he takes you out for dinner, sit up straight and let those nipples tease him.
#8: Access his heart through his stomach
It is a cliche that works. All men appreciate good grub, but if you want him to sit up and take notice then you have to make cooking for him into a bit of an occasion.
This doesn’t mean a fancy seven-course candle-lit mean though. It meansavoiding the kitchen in general so that when you do cook a slap-up meal, it will seem like a special event and your man will think you’re amazing.
Once you appeal to his appetite, he’ll be craving more of that yummy food, and if you are choosy about how often you cook for him, then his cravings will increase dramatically, and his appreciation will be displayed much more prominently… flowers, kisses, great sex… need I say more?
Also, if when you cook great food it leads to great sex, he will begin to associate the two, so that every time he thinks of your great food he will also start to think of how much he wants to ravish you!
When you mention that you might be cooking tonight – he might even start to get a hard-on…
Make a big deal out of planning a short holiday away with the girls. He will begin to miss you before you have even parted!
Then while you are away, keep in touch, but make it brief. Don’t give away too many details about what you have been doing, let his imagination do the talking, and feed it with sexual tit-bits to get his sexual desire for you churning – tell him you miss his kisses and cuddles, that sort of thing.
Soon you will notice that his texts get a little bit soppier because he is missing you. When it is finally time to come home, he will be all over you, because of all the anticipation you have built up.
Don’t forget to enjoy yourself as much as possible and let it show. The happier you are, and the more you smile and laugh, the more beautiful you are and the more your boyfriend will be drawn to your positive vibes.
Practice your enthusiasm, take it up a notch, start getting excited about things! And wear happy colours too.