Hello Bodex,
My name is Nkechi and I will like to share an issue I’m having with you
I met my boyfriend about 4 years ago, we dated for a bit but broke up after due to irreconcilable differences, after we broke up he called me several times to apologize and ask me to take him back which I did last year. My siblings and mother were kind of against the relationship at this point because of the way he treated me before but I assured them he was a changed man and I loved him, We started going out again in November last year and this time we were planning it
was going to end in marriage, the issue is that he’s very stingy.
I’m more of an independent woman so I don’t ask him for things, all I ask him to do is to call me and show me a bit of affection which seems too much for him to do. He earns a 6 figure salary so I know money is not his problem, on my birthday I had to ask him to buy a cake for me if not he wouldn’t have bought anything. On valentines day I bought him 5 H and C shirts as a surprise gift and he didn’t even buy me a pin. I call him crying severally that I just want him to be more caring and call me more often but he always says that i’m too self centered that he has to leave his house by 5 a.m every morning to drive to work and doesn’t get back till 12 a.m so he’s stressed and I shouldn’t stress him the more. In July we had a major fight and I told him I wasn’t interested anymore that I deserve someone who treats me better, he begged me and called his sister and my friend to beg me, he promised he was going to change and be more sensitive to my emotional needs, he changed a bit but today he’s back to the old same story, I’m tired of going back and forth I really need someone that is sensitive to my emotional needs or am I asking for too much?