“Relationship is between 2 people and God”-Skukipeeshaun

One of the music duo in Nigeria Skukipeeshaun of “Skuki” shared this educative piece on his instagram page.

When in a relationship,  filter the advice u get from friends and 3rd parties, don’t swallow all

U can’t isolate urself and u need people to talk to.. TRUE!

But one fact remains, no one can Know u or ur relationship like u do

U can’t use the map of Abuja to find ur way around Lagos

As humans, we analyze the world via our personal strengths and weaknesses

And becos of this, people would advice you based on their own insecurities

U need to be sure what motive a person has, when offering you advice

NOTE: When seeking advice… listen more to experiences and less to opinions

A person can tell u what he/she feels u should do, but put them in your shoes a few months frm now & see how they perform

U’ll be shocked they’ll be more clumsy than they say u are

And even when listening to those with experience e.g the older ones

Discern and be sure that their advices come from a mended heart and not a bruised ego

Be sure they are not using ur situation as a battleground for their own past mistakes

A person, who has not gotten over a broken heart might advice you to be less emotional in ur relationship

Meanwhile u might be at a point in ur relationship where u need to be true to ur emotions

At the end of the day, u have got to be real to urself and captain ur ship- ur relationSHIP