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In our every day lives, we come across people and have interactions.  Every time we meet people; some make a lasting impression while some are easily forgotten.

It is the impression these people with us that sometimes help us decide whether they stay or not.

However, no matter how careful we may be in our selection process, every now and then, we let some toxic people into our lives. It takes just one toxic person to cause chaos in our lives.

Toxic people bring negativity, strife, unnecessary problems, tension and stress. For the sake of your mental, emotional and psychological well being, dealing with toxic people should not be something you have to deal with.

Toxic people tend to subdue your confidence, your mental health, your feeling of self-worth, hence if you spend too much time around toxic people, you may find yourself picking up some of their bad traits.

To avoid toxic people in your life, we have listed six types of toxic people to avoid.

The Pessimistis

This set of people are downers. They are negative about everything and anything around them. They always see nothing but the worst in every situation. They are full of negative vibes and puts fear in you when you want to take that big step that would move you forward, giving you instances of people who tried and failed. Pessimistic people have a way of playing with your emotions and if you are not careful you would give up on your dreams because you believe it’s never possible. These people tend to believe that bad things are more likely to happen than good.

The Haters

These people never see the good in everything and everyone. They always have something bad to say about other people, funny enough these people often suffer from inferiority complexes and hatred is a relief for them. They tend to be toxic because they never let you see the good in others and hatred is a spirit that can be consanguineous.

The Envious 

Instead of celebrating their own achievements, these set of people always want to measure their accomplishmenta with others. A lack of self-esteem and fragile self-confidence has them constantly comparing themselves to others and dealing with feelings of inadequacy.  Their perceived need for recognition often leads them to overreact on anything and anyone. People like this are toxic because they can destroy your self-esteem and confidence to the point where you no longer believe you believe you are good at anything.

The Needy

We all have needs and at some point, might need help from others but there are people that are always in need and have made it a habit to always ask. The needy only come to you when they want something from you. They only know you exist when they need you to help them out. They are never available when you need them but would want you to be when they need you. Needy people can be clingy for a number of things ranging from financial assistance, emotional support, quality time or what have you. They like to get what they want irrespective of whether it is convenient for you or not. In other words, they are users.

The Self Absorbed

Showing yourself some self-love is not bad in itself but when it becomes a narcissistic obsession that turns off other people around you, then it becomes a problem. The self-absorbed treats every other person as irrelevant as they are too preoccupied with their own feelings and what interests them without consideration for the rest of the world. They are always the “me” instead of the “we”. Whatever they do is always centered around them.

The Closeminded Conformers

A close-minded conformer is anyone who tries to stop your personal growth. Their intention might be good but then they just want you to be at their level. When you want to shed that bad habit and develop a good one, or you don’t want to be stuck in the same place forever because you feel there is so much more you should be doing with your life, there are just there to give you reasons why you should be comfortable where you are and there is no need for change. They do this not because they hate you but because they fear to lose you. They don’t want to move outside their comfort zone and don’t want you to leave yours and by holding you back you will always be within their reach, so you don’t grow apart.

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Senator Ifeanyi Ubah dies at 52

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The Senator representing Anambra South in the National Assembly, Ifeanyi Ubah, is dead.

Ubah, who was the Chief Executive Officer of Capital Oil, was said to have died in a hotel in London, the United Kingdom, on Saturday.

He would have been 53 on September 3.

Senate spokesperson, Yemi Adaramodu, confirmed Ubah’s death to our correspondent on Saturday.

He said, “It’s confirmed, but I am sending an official statement soon.”

Ubah, who was re-elected into the 10th Senate under the Young Peoples Party, had last year defected to the All Progressive Congress.

In September 2022, Ubah escaped assassination when he was attacked by gunmen on his way to Nnewi in Enugwu-Ukwu in Anambra State.

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JUST IN: Edo state Assembly impeaches Deputy Governor Shaibu

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The Edo State House of Assembly, on Monday, impeached the state’s Deputy governor, Comrade Philip Shaibu.

The impeachment followed the adoption of the report of the seven-man investigative panel set up by the Assembly to probe allegations of misconduct against Shaibu.

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JUST IN: Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun joins ancestors at 81

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The Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun has joined his ancestors after a brief illness.

He joined his ancestors at the age of 81.

It was gathered that the late monarch was taken to the hospital Wednesday morning having stayed indoor throughout Tuesday on account of slight malaria fever, though, he was hail and hearty on Monday during which he personally received few guests that paid him congratulatory visits on his second year anniversary on that day.

Making this announcement was the Baba-Kekere Olubadan and his younger brother, Dr Kola Balogun in a statement by the Personal Assistant (Media) to the late monarch, Oladele Ogunsola.

According to the statement, Dr. Balogun disclosed that Oba Balogun would be buried at his Aliiwo ancestral home by 4.00pm on Friday according to Islamic rites just as he said that the State Governor Seyi Makinde, though already verbally informed, would be formally notified early in the morning.

The late Olubadan was the first most educated to have emerged as Ibadan monarch, a British trained P.hd holder, a former university lecturer, former member of management staff of Shell British Petroleum, former gubernatorial candidate of the defunct Nigeria People’s Party, NPP, former Senator and a successful business man.

His last official outing was the Olubadan Advisory Council’s meeting which he presided over last Saturday where the decision to derobed Mogaji Akinsola, Olawale Oladoja was taken.

He however, on Tuesday instructed the Ekerin Olubadan, Oba Hamidu Ajibade to midwife a small committee to deliberate on last Friday’s decision on what should be the position of Ibadan Zone in the proposed newly reconstituted Oyo State Council of Obas and Chiefs.

The decision of the small committee was earlier on Thursday ratified by the Olubadan Advisory Council at a meeting presided over by Otun Olubadan and the former governor of Oyo State, High Chief Rashidi Ladoja and was to be taken to the late Oba Balogun for his signature Friday morning so as to meet the deadline for submission to the state Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy Matters later in the day.

The late Olubadan is survived by wives, children and grandchildren.

Announcing the passage of the monarch, Governor Makinde, in a statement, stated that Olubadan, who joined his ancestors late Thursday evening at the University College Hospital, UCH, Ibadan, described him as an epitome of royal excellence and a great achiever, who made great marks on Ibadanland in just a little over two years of his reign.

He expressed his condolences to the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland and Oyo State, praying to God to grant repose to the soul of the deceased monarch.

Makinde said: “With total submission to the will of God, I announce the passing unto glory of our father, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr. Mohood Lekan Balogun, Alli Okunmade II, the 42nd Olubadan of Ibadanland.

“A mighty Iroko has fallen; Oba Dr. Balogun has joined the ancestors.

“In Kabiyesi, Ibadanland had a cosmopolitan and well-experienced Olubadan, who made indelible marks on the sands of history and achieved greatly within a short while.

“On behalf of the Government and good People of Oyo State, I condole with the immediate family of the Oba Dr. Balogun, the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland.

“It is my prayer that God grants repose to the soul of our late monarch.”

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

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