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”Esther it shall not be well with you” – Man Quits Long-Distance Relationship After Discovering His Woman Has Been Dating Another Man For Over 4 years

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A Nigerian man has narrated how he found his long distance relationship ended on a sour note.

According to the young man, the lady he was in a relationship with, lived in Delta while he was based in Lagos state.

Taking to his handle, @JustKingss said they met at a wedding in Delta and after a while began dating.

After investing emotionally and financially into their long-distance relationship, he recently discovered that she had been dating someone else for over four years and was residing with him.

In a post on Twitter, the heartbroken man wrote;

“I don commot my hand for anything long distance relationship. Let me cry first, I will gist you guys later.

We met sometime late last year at a wedding event in Delta, exchanged contact but started talking early last month, she’s 24y/o, very beautiful ( kind of woman I like tho) base in Delta, I base in Lagos.

She told me she lives with her eldest sister which is married with 2 kids. Sometimes her Sister’s husband usually disturb her for sex when her sister is not around but she insisted that she can’t do such thing to her sister, that’s why she really need to get her own accommodation in order to escape such temptation.

I became so emotional why a married man will disturbed an innocent girl for sex (maybe it’s true that some men are trash) then I asked her how much is an accommodation over there where she can manage since she’s still searching for a job with an intention to possibly contribute for her to secure the accommodation. She replied; “a self contained is about 200-300k per year over here”.

We usually video chat ourselves mostly from 8am-7pm, we don’t talk at night because she said her sister is against night calls because of noise bla bla bla…..that I should understand it, ( being a 21st century fool, madly in love i stupidly believe her) which she further convince me that once she got her own house we can talk at anytime i want. Although sometimes I insisted we talk a bit at night but she won’t allow it, if i get angry at some point, she’ll go and hid in a toilet for a 10-15secs Video call to calm me down. Things were going very well, I was very happy that God has finally answered my “God When ?” Questions.

Last week she told me that they called her for a job interview at one of the places she submitted her CV in Lagos (I was very happy that finally I will get to meet this girl again and this time will be in Lagos) then she added with a very low tone; I really don’t know how to do it” Don’t know how to do what? “I asked”; she continues… that at the moment, she doesn’t have any money to pay for her tfare (To & Fro) to Lagos and she will love to do her hair, nails and buy new clothes but she doesn’t have money.

I asked her how much will that be, she said; 40k and base on that she want to travel by road. I sent her 50k which she was really happy, I was also happy because I will get to meet her again, maybe possibly spend some days with me before going back to Delta.

Thursday this week was her birthday, which I uploaded her picture on my WhatsApp status to wish her happy birthday with some romantic words. Although her number all through the day wasn’t going through even on WhatsApp calls. I was wondering what could have happen to her and I became very worried. Later in the evening a friend of mine whom we went to Delta together for the same wedding last year where I met her, send me a WhatsApp message when he saw the girls picture on my status, he asked; bro do you know this girl? I replied” yes bro I know her very well, went on to tell him that we met on that very day we traveled to Delta together. I asked him too; do you know her? “He replied; yes that a friend to his friend is dating the girl and that they are into a very serious relationship that possibly will lead to marriage,

That they have dated for 4yrs, and that they live together for more than 2yrs now. In fact he send the girl and her boyfriend pictures to me for more proves. That he once liked the girl.

At that point I couldn’t believe my eyes and what I heard, the guy further added that I should forward those pictures to her and ask her who’s the guy. I did as instructed; she didn’t reply nor pick my calls till night when I saw a message from her saying; “I’m sorry”.

Sorry for what? “I asked her; she replied; for everything but I can explain. (*Sorry I would have posted our WhatsApp chat but I deleted her contact out of anger*) Explain what? I asked again” do you live with a man or not?

Are you into a very serious relationship with someone? She replied; it’s a long story that she likes me and that she doesn’t like the guy anymore bla bla bla… later that night she blocked me on all platforms. her name is Esther.

Esther it shall not be well with you.”

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Senator Ifeanyi Ubah dies at 52

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The Senator representing Anambra South in the National Assembly, Ifeanyi Ubah, is dead.

Ubah, who was the Chief Executive Officer of Capital Oil, was said to have died in a hotel in London, the United Kingdom, on Saturday.

He would have been 53 on September 3.

Senate spokesperson, Yemi Adaramodu, confirmed Ubah’s death to our correspondent on Saturday.

He said, “It’s confirmed, but I am sending an official statement soon.”

Ubah, who was re-elected into the 10th Senate under the Young Peoples Party, had last year defected to the All Progressive Congress.

In September 2022, Ubah escaped assassination when he was attacked by gunmen on his way to Nnewi in Enugwu-Ukwu in Anambra State.

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JUST IN: Edo state Assembly impeaches Deputy Governor Shaibu

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The Edo State House of Assembly, on Monday, impeached the state’s Deputy governor, Comrade Philip Shaibu.

The impeachment followed the adoption of the report of the seven-man investigative panel set up by the Assembly to probe allegations of misconduct against Shaibu.

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JUST IN: Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun joins ancestors at 81

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March 15, 2024 3:56 am

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The Olubadan of Ibadanland, Oba Lekan Balogun has joined his ancestors after a brief illness.

He joined his ancestors at the age of 81.

It was gathered that the late monarch was taken to the hospital Wednesday morning having stayed indoor throughout Tuesday on account of slight malaria fever, though, he was hail and hearty on Monday during which he personally received few guests that paid him congratulatory visits on his second year anniversary on that day.

Making this announcement was the Baba-Kekere Olubadan and his younger brother, Dr Kola Balogun in a statement by the Personal Assistant (Media) to the late monarch, Oladele Ogunsola.

According to the statement, Dr. Balogun disclosed that Oba Balogun would be buried at his Aliiwo ancestral home by 4.00pm on Friday according to Islamic rites just as he said that the State Governor Seyi Makinde, though already verbally informed, would be formally notified early in the morning.

The late Olubadan was the first most educated to have emerged as Ibadan monarch, a British trained P.hd holder, a former university lecturer, former member of management staff of Shell British Petroleum, former gubernatorial candidate of the defunct Nigeria People’s Party, NPP, former Senator and a successful business man.

His last official outing was the Olubadan Advisory Council’s meeting which he presided over last Saturday where the decision to derobed Mogaji Akinsola, Olawale Oladoja was taken.

He however, on Tuesday instructed the Ekerin Olubadan, Oba Hamidu Ajibade to midwife a small committee to deliberate on last Friday’s decision on what should be the position of Ibadan Zone in the proposed newly reconstituted Oyo State Council of Obas and Chiefs.

The decision of the small committee was earlier on Thursday ratified by the Olubadan Advisory Council at a meeting presided over by Otun Olubadan and the former governor of Oyo State, High Chief Rashidi Ladoja and was to be taken to the late Oba Balogun for his signature Friday morning so as to meet the deadline for submission to the state Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy Matters later in the day.

The late Olubadan is survived by wives, children and grandchildren.

Announcing the passage of the monarch, Governor Makinde, in a statement, stated that Olubadan, who joined his ancestors late Thursday evening at the University College Hospital, UCH, Ibadan, described him as an epitome of royal excellence and a great achiever, who made great marks on Ibadanland in just a little over two years of his reign.

He expressed his condolences to the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland and Oyo State, praying to God to grant repose to the soul of the deceased monarch.

Makinde said: “With total submission to the will of God, I announce the passing unto glory of our father, His Imperial Majesty, Oba Dr. Mohood Lekan Balogun, Alli Okunmade II, the 42nd Olubadan of Ibadanland.

“A mighty Iroko has fallen; Oba Dr. Balogun has joined the ancestors.

“In Kabiyesi, Ibadanland had a cosmopolitan and well-experienced Olubadan, who made indelible marks on the sands of history and achieved greatly within a short while.

“On behalf of the Government and good People of Oyo State, I condole with the immediate family of the Oba Dr. Balogun, the Olubadan-in-Council, the Oyo State Traditional Council and the people of Ibadanland.

“It is my prayer that God grants repose to the soul of our late monarch.”

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