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Five ways children can benefit from divorce

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This might sound odd to you. A whole lot of people believe that divorce has no positive effect, particularly on the children produced by such marriage. But this is not entirely true.

Although divorce process can be unpleasant and draining, your child can benefit from it positively if well handled.

Below are ways your children can benefit from divorce:

  • Maturity

Children who went through divorce process tend to get mature quickly due to the experience than their peers. This is common when they have younger siblings. They will want to grow up fast, brave and strong to be able to care and protect their young ones.

  • Problem solving skills

If there is good co-parenting, your kid can learn some problem solving and conflict resolution skills from you. The whole divorce and co-parenting experience can help teach your child tolerance, understanding and also good communication skills.

This will further help them have the ability to be able to solve most of the challenges that come their way.

  • Empathy

A child can also become more emphatic after the experience, they become sympathetic.

They tend to apply the experience to other situations which will make them more supportive to anyone close that’s going through a hard time. They will also be able to understand what the person is going through and the best way to help out.

  • Resilience

Children of divorced parents tend to be more confident, brave and courageous. The experience they gathered from their parents’ divorce will naturally make them strong to brace the odds.

  • Strong parent-child relationship

Some wise parents use divorce as an opportunity to focus on their parenting skills and their children’s well-being.

Since the parents are no longer together, the kids will tend to learn about each of them personally. They will be able to have a personal interaction and conversation with each of them because they are personally trying to focus on the kids and leave a good impression.

Since parents are trying to be the best to their children, kids will be able to have quality time with each of them and this will later result to a strong parent-child relationship.

However, it should be noted that children can only experience the positive side of divorce if the parents are willing to help them.

Through good and consistent co-parenting, a child might not even have to experience the negative side of divorce.

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Simi Drey reveals why she called off marriage to her ex-lover

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Simi Drey, the award-winning British-Nigerian radio presenter, has opened up about her past relationship and marriage that ended in cancellation.

In a recent episode of the ‘WithChude’ podcast, Simi said her friends kept pressuring her to get married, despite her parents’ warnings about the relationship.

The London-born radio presenter said after getting engaged, she realized she wasn’t fully fulfilled and happy.

Simi said her ex-fiancé wasn’t abusive or unfaithful, but she sought a marriage built on equal love and respect.

The 26-year-old actress said months after her engagement, she expressed her reservations to him, suggesting that they work on their relationship before considering marriage.

Simi said a month later, she realized that she didn’t want to marry him.

The media personality said she ended the relationship and faced criticism from her friends.

Simi, born Simileoluwa Audrey Adejumo, also said she remained single until she met her husband Julian Flosbach in 2019.

“My ex and I did not have a perfect relationship. He never cheated. He was never abusive. But you know when you are not 100% fulfilled or happy. We do live in a part of the world where marriage is heavily emphasised especially for women. My parents never put pressure on me, but I remember my friends asking me ‘when will you get married?’” she said.

“Eventually he proposed. I remember having this apprehension that is he really the person I am going to marry? I was very close to my mum. When I called her that I was engaged she said ‘Simi do not do this’. But I told her ‘no, everything is fine’.

“My mother is not that kind of person who would ever stop me from doing something or blacklisting me. But she knew that I was not feeling whole in the relationship. I called my dad I ended the call in tears. These were not tears of joy but of apprehension.

“Two months later, I called my fiance then that we should work on our relationship first and then maybe we can think about marriage. A month later, I did not feel I wanted to marry this man.

“I wanted to marry with worth. I ended the engagement with him. And I got another criticism from people around me. I had to be truthful to myself that I was not happy in the relationship.

“It was after I left that the reality hit me. I realised to be single and happy is better than be married and miserable.

…If I do not feel respected or feel a man is superior to me because of title or his finances, it is a no.”

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Chiwetalu Agu reveals how he split bills with his wife

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Chiwetalu Agu, the ace Nigerian actor, has opened up about his financial arrangement with his wife Nkechi Agu.

In an Instagram video, the veteran engaged in a question-and-answer section with his wife on who handles different financial responsibilities.

The 68-year-old film star said he provides the money to sort all the expenses while his wife’s responsibility is to pay for the bills with the money he provided.

“I am responsible for bringing out the money to pay all the bills,” he said.

“My responsibility is to buy and pay with our money baby,” Ngozi added.

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Nigerian billionaire Geoffrey Ogunlesi engages fiancee with $500k diamond ring

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American jewelry designer Jennifer Meyer has flaunted her diamond engagement ring from fiancé Geoffrey Ogunlesi during the star-studded Baby2Baby Gala in Los Angeles on Saturday.

The couple, seen cozied up at the event, made their first red carpet appearance since announcing their engagement in September.

Meyer’s ring, estimated to be worth around $500,000 according to The Diamond Bank in Los Angeles, sparkled under the lights, drawing attention amid a glamorous crowd that included Jessica Alba, Nicole Richie, and Paris Hilton.

Meyer, who wore an ivory minidress embellished with crystals, paired her look with a silver Gucci purse, diamond earrings, and bangle bracelets.

Ogunlesi, looking dapper in a sleek black suit and tie, complemented his fiancée’s elegant style.

The ring, which Ogunlesi selected himself, is fitting for his high-profile background. The billionaire heir is the son of Nigerian business magnate Adebayo Ogunlesi, 70.

The engagement announcement came in September when Meyer shared a heartfelt Instagram post with the caption, “YES!!!” accompanied by a black heart, infinity symbol, and sparkling stars emoji. Meyer, a mother of two and close friend of stars Jennifer Aniston and Courteney Cox, went public with her relationship with Ogunlesi last November after months of dating.

Friend and fellow jewelry designer Allison Wise celebrated Meyer’s engagement on Instagram, posting a photo of the two with Meyer proudly displaying her ring.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

She has widespread experiences across different professions and skills, which includes experiences in; Marketing, Media, Broadcasting, Brand and Event Management, Administration and Management with prior stints at MTN, NAPIMS-NNPC, GLOBAL FLEET OIL AND GAS, LTV, Silverbird and a host of others

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