Relationships
Eight tips to plan your dream wedding on budget
Planning one’s dream wedding requires a lot of stress and money. But considering the current situation of things, it won’t be nice to go into debt just because you’re getting married.
Below are tips for having a memorable wedding on a budget.
- Plan and prioritise
As you already know, if you fail to plan you’re planning to fail. So, first thing, you and your partner should plan and have a budget talk.
How much do you both have for the wedding? How much are you willing to spend? This will guide you on how to spend.
After establishing the amount you intend to spend, list out your priorities. Have a list of the things you and your partner feel must be available on your wedding day — things you won’t want to compromise on or cut off.
Having a budget and priority list is a good step to having your memorable day on a budget.
- Marry on a weekday
It might sound weird but it isn’t. After all, no law states that Saturdays are the only day to get married. So, having your wedding on a Friday, Wednesday or any other day of the week will help you cut costs on a lot of things like guests, food items, and venue.
Wondering how? People that will attend your wedding on a weekday will definitely be the ones who are really important to you. Also, prices for venues will be reduced because it is not on the normal party day.
- Your wedding dress
This tends to be part of the things you won’t want to cut off at all. It’s your day so it’s necessary you look good.
However, you can also go by your budget when getting your wedding dress.
For instance, instead of sewing or buying a new wedding dress, you can choose to rent or better still get your dress when your vendor is on a promo sale.
- Keep it small and intimate
This might sound difficult because weddings tend to be for family and friends’ gatherings. However, a small guest list means a less costly wedding.
Invite only people that you won’t want to have your wedding without them — people that are really close to you.
Cutting down your guest list is very important because it mostly determines your wedding cost ranging from the foods to the drinks and venue.
- Send e-vites
Yes, electronic invitations. This is an alternative to physical invitations which will cost you money. So, to cut off the printing cost, you can go modern by sending e-vites to your guests.
Since you already cut down your guest list it will be easy to send the invites. They will also understand because they’re your closest people.
- Get a venue in your budget
There are many low-cost venues you can have your wedding. Try to get a venue that will occupy your guests and make sure it’s the one you won’t be spending more than your budget.
However, if you have access to a family compound or backyard then that saves a fortune. You won’t have to spend more on the venue. Your cost will just be for the tent, tables, and chairs. Then, you can have your beautiful backyard/compound wedding.
- Utilise your friends’ talents
Having vendors plan your wedding tends to be expensive so you can ask your friends to help you out. To help reduce costs, you can ask your friends to help you out according to their talents.
Even if you’re to pay, you won’t pay as much as you will pay a vendor. You can also practice some do-it-yourself (DIY) in regards to the venue décor and some other things you’re good at.
- Make your food budget according to your guest list
Your food budget should be based on your guest list. Since you already cut down your guest list, the cost for making food will be reduced as also the service charge of the caterer.
You may want to go a step further by doing the cooking yourself, considering the small size of your guests, to save money.
This doesn’t literally mean you have to cook all of the dishes yourself, you can seek the help of your family members who are good at cooking.
Remember, your marriage is about your love and your partnership. So you should not go overboard to satisfy people. There is no award for the best wedding of the year.
Relationships
Simi Drey reveals why she called off marriage to her ex-lover
Simi Drey, the award-winning British-Nigerian radio presenter, has opened up about her past relationship and marriage that ended in cancellation.
In a recent episode of the ‘WithChude’ podcast, Simi said her friends kept pressuring her to get married, despite her parents’ warnings about the relationship.
The London-born radio presenter said after getting engaged, she realized she wasn’t fully fulfilled and happy.
Simi said her ex-fiancé wasn’t abusive or unfaithful, but she sought a marriage built on equal love and respect.
The 26-year-old actress said months after her engagement, she expressed her reservations to him, suggesting that they work on their relationship before considering marriage.
Simi said a month later, she realized that she didn’t want to marry him.
The media personality said she ended the relationship and faced criticism from her friends.
Simi, born Simileoluwa Audrey Adejumo, also said she remained single until she met her husband Julian Flosbach in 2019.
“My ex and I did not have a perfect relationship. He never cheated. He was never abusive. But you know when you are not 100% fulfilled or happy. We do live in a part of the world where marriage is heavily emphasised especially for women. My parents never put pressure on me, but I remember my friends asking me ‘when will you get married?’” she said.
“Eventually he proposed. I remember having this apprehension that is he really the person I am going to marry? I was very close to my mum. When I called her that I was engaged she said ‘Simi do not do this’. But I told her ‘no, everything is fine’.
“My mother is not that kind of person who would ever stop me from doing something or blacklisting me. But she knew that I was not feeling whole in the relationship. I called my dad I ended the call in tears. These were not tears of joy but of apprehension.
“Two months later, I called my fiance then that we should work on our relationship first and then maybe we can think about marriage. A month later, I did not feel I wanted to marry this man.
“I wanted to marry with worth. I ended the engagement with him. And I got another criticism from people around me. I had to be truthful to myself that I was not happy in the relationship.
“It was after I left that the reality hit me. I realised to be single and happy is better than be married and miserable.
…If I do not feel respected or feel a man is superior to me because of title or his finances, it is a no.”
Relationships
Chiwetalu Agu reveals how he split bills with his wife
Chiwetalu Agu, the ace Nigerian actor, has opened up about his financial arrangement with his wife Nkechi Agu.
In an Instagram video, the veteran engaged in a question-and-answer section with his wife on who handles different financial responsibilities.
The 68-year-old film star said he provides the money to sort all the expenses while his wife’s responsibility is to pay for the bills with the money he provided.
“I am responsible for bringing out the money to pay all the bills,” he said.
“My responsibility is to buy and pay with our money baby,” Ngozi added.
Relationships
Nigerian billionaire Geoffrey Ogunlesi engages fiancee with $500k diamond ring
American jewelry designer Jennifer Meyer has flaunted her diamond engagement ring from fiancé Geoffrey Ogunlesi during the star-studded Baby2Baby Gala in Los Angeles on Saturday.
The couple, seen cozied up at the event, made their first red carpet appearance since announcing their engagement in September.
Meyer’s ring, estimated to be worth around $500,000 according to The Diamond Bank in Los Angeles, sparkled under the lights, drawing attention amid a glamorous crowd that included Jessica Alba, Nicole Richie, and Paris Hilton.
Meyer, who wore an ivory minidress embellished with crystals, paired her look with a silver Gucci purse, diamond earrings, and bangle bracelets.
Ogunlesi, looking dapper in a sleek black suit and tie, complemented his fiancée’s elegant style.
The ring, which Ogunlesi selected himself, is fitting for his high-profile background. The billionaire heir is the son of Nigerian business magnate Adebayo Ogunlesi, 70.
The engagement announcement came in September when Meyer shared a heartfelt Instagram post with the caption, “YES!!!” accompanied by a black heart, infinity symbol, and sparkling stars emoji. Meyer, a mother of two and close friend of stars Jennifer Aniston and Courteney Cox, went public with her relationship with Ogunlesi last November after months of dating.
Friend and fellow jewelry designer Allison Wise celebrated Meyer’s engagement on Instagram, posting a photo of the two with Meyer proudly displaying her ring.
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