Health
See what happens to your body when you stop having sex
Humans are commonly described as sexual beings and sex is regarded as one of the basic instincts of survival. People generally have sex for pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person and to make a baby, among other reasons.
Experts say sex is an important part of life and overall wellbeing with psychological and emotional benefits such as reduced risk of heart disease, stress, anxiety and improved self-esteem.
Although sex isn’t the only indicator of health or happiness, the benefits of sex come from the same feeling of pleasure that can also come from listening to music, interacting with pets, and having strong religious faith.
But at some point people have got fed up with their sex lives, to the extent of going for long periods with having sex or abstaining completely. Does this have any positive or negative effect on their health?The late Chief Obafemi Awolowo was widely believed to have kept a celibate life in his last four decades of life purely for spiritual reasons according to reports.
When American singer Lady Gaga who is known for her sexually-charged performances, announced over a decade ago that she was choosing to become celibate, there was widespread surprise. Gaga said she was giving up sex to protect her creativity. Famous scientist Nikola Tesla whose pioneering work in electricity generation laid the foundation of the cutting-edge Elon Musk’s battery-powered Tesla cars, allegedly died a virgin because he did not have the “time” for sex.
Millions of people have abandoned the pleasures of sex for one reason or another, but the question remains what happens to the body when you abstain from sex for a long time or you permanently stop having sex?
There are several things that may get you off sex, so what happens when you don’t have sex for a long time? Regular sex improves the immune system so does this mean that having sex less often might result in more frequent illnesses? There may be some truth there, but no one knows for certain.
Having sex after a long break can be uncomfortable. It takes longer for the female body to become aroused and produce enough lubrication to make sex easy and comfortable. Regular sex helps keep tissues in the sex organs healthy by improving blood flow.Some people find sex to be an excellent remedy for menstrual cramps. The increase in endorphins caused by sex as well as the uterine contractions that occur with orgasm can both help alleviate cramps.
If you do not have sex on a regular basis, you might be at a higher risk of developing cardiovascular disease.
In addition to being a source of exercise, sexual intercourse helps keep your estrogen and progesterone levels in balance, which can lower your risk of heart disease.
Some people may feel more anxious and depressed if they go a long period of time without having sex. Having sex releases endorphins and oxytocin into the body which manage the effects of anxiety or stress. If you do not have sex regularly, your body may release these hormones less often, which might make it more difficult to cope with stress.
Going a long time without having sex can make you lose interest in sex altogether. Regular sex boosts libido and helps to maintain bonding and also often leads to better communication.
Many people choose to not have sex for a variety of reasons. Some people don’t enjoy it or aren’t interested. Others find it to be a distraction from the things they really care about. Although having sex can have positive effects on your health, not having sex has benefits too.
There are positive side effects of not having sex for a long time. For one, there is zero fear of pregnancy: Abstinence is the only 100 per cent absolute, most certain way to not get pregnant.
Not having sex is going to drastically reduce your chances of getting a sexually transmitted infection or a urinary tract infection.
Abstaining from sex can give you time to focus on any big emotional issues you may be dealing with. Sometimes abstaining it is necessary after an illness or medical procedure and doing so can even help to speed up the healing process.
Going without sex for a long time can be a frustrating experience if you would rather be sexually active. However, a period of abstinence can be an opportunity for personal growth and self-love.
Sexual activity has the potential to improve or maintain health on different levels but this does not mean that you have to have sex to be healthy or stay healthy. Each person has different desires and needs when it comes to sex. If you find yourself in a dry spell, take the time to get to know your own personal desires.
Health
Five ways to rid your home of ants
Ants are just one of the many pests that can launch an attack on your home.
The tiny insects are particularly attracted to the scent of sugar or grease. The scent of other foods may also attract ants which is why it is imperative to promptly clean spills.
Without proper management, ants can overrun your home.
Here are five ways to rid your home of ants.
Cucumber peels
Cucumber peels can serve as an excellent ant repellent.
Put them around areas affected by ants and you will notice that they will disappear in no time.
Salt
Ordinary salt is the safest remedy to keep ants away.
Use the mineral as a barricade to prevent the ants from crossing the designated area.
Duct tape
This can be useful to save your plants or keep ants from climbing your table or bed legs.
Wrap the tape around the base of plant or table leg with the sticky side outwardly. It will gum all the ants, and they will either die or be unable to move and fall prey to other insects.
Boiling water
If you can manage to find the source of the ants in or around your compound, you can pour a kettle of boiling water directly onto the ant hills to protect your home.
Vinegar
Vinegar diluted in water used to clean surfaces helps in eradicating ants due to its fungicidal and insecticidal properties.
Health
Six tips for coping after miscarriage
A miscarriage can be a traumatic experience one that can be difficult to overcome.
The pain that comes with pregnancy loss is indescribable. So, here are six steps that most people find helpful on how to recover/cope after a miscarriage.
1. Process Your Emotions
Take time to process your emotions and learn about your grieving process.
A miscarriage is a major emotional loss and so, it is normal to mourn this loss the same way you would mourn any other loss.
Try to familiarise yourself with your grieving process so that you will understand that what you are feeling is normal.
Usually, the first stage of the emotional grief is denial. You might find yourself thinking, “This isn’t really happening; it’s a bad dream that’d go away soon.”
The second stage is feeling anger, guilt, or depression and it features common thoughts like, “This isn’t fair!” or “I did everything right, why me?”
The last stage is acceptance. You will definitely still feel sadness, but you will begin to accept the reality of the situation.
2. Be patient with yourself
Keep in mind that this emotional experience is different for everyone.
Everyone will glide through the different stages at their own pace. You might coast quickly through the denial stage, but then find yourself stuck in anger.
Do not beat yourself up. Rather, make efforts to be kind to yourself.
Take a moment each day to acknowledge your emotions; just don’t judge them and give yourself the time you need to heal and process your emotions.
Most importantly, know that your experience is your own.
You may have friends or family members who have gone through a miscarriage of their own and naturally, they will want to give you advice on how to handle it.
It’s fine if you want to listen, but it’s okay to feel like your situation is different.
It’s fine to tell them, “Thank you for your concern and advice, but I really need to handle this in my own way.” Most people would understand and be respectful of your wishes.
3. Be okay with setbacks
Healing is a process and not necessarily a destination.
As the days go by, you will make progress and feel better- time heals all wounds. However, you are also likely to experience some bumps in the road. Setbacks aren’t palatable, but you can get through them.
Maybe you experience a setback when a friend tells you that she is pregnant. After such loss, this is going to be hard for you to hear.
Remind yourself that you can still be happy for your friend while feeling sad about your own loss.
If you feel yourself sliding back into sadness for a few days, that’s perfectly fine. Be patient with yourself and know that you’ll move forward again when you’re ready to.
4. Make your own choices
You are likely to find that well-meaning friends and relatives will come offering a lot of (unsolicited) advice during this time.
First, remind yourself that they mean well. However, this doesn’t mean that you have to listen to everything they say.
For instance, your mum may suggest that it is time to give 0ut all of the baby clothes that you bought.
Eventually, this might be something that you want to consider but if you’re not ready now, don’t do it.
It is your right to say, “Thank you for your thoughts, but I’m not ready to take that step right now. Kindly respect my pace.”
5. Speak to your doctor
Some miscarriages can also be difficult to deal with physically.
It might require you to undergo a surgical evacuation procedure. It is also normal to feel the effects of a hormonal imbalance at this time.
This is why you should talk to your doctor so that you can start the process of healing your body right.
Ask your doctor if there are certain precautions you need to take.
You can ask for advice in handling any bleeding and dealing with mood swings.
Don’t hold back on asking for any support that you need. He/she could also point you to support groups if they happen to know any.
6. Keep your body healthy
You need plenty of rest to heal physically.
Plus, good physical health is directly related to your emotional health.
Ensure that you are getting the rest that you need to heal. If necessary (and possible), consider taking a brief time off from work. They’d understand.
See to it that you are eating a healthy diet; focus on whole grains, fruits and veggies, and protein.
Do not forget get part of being healthy is communicating with your partner. Your spouse will also be going through a difficult time. They too might be experiencing sadness, anger, or grief.
Take time to be there for, and talk to one another.
Be open and honest about your feelings. If you are feeling depressed, don’t be afraid or shy to admit so.
Your partner at such a time could be your best source of support, so don’t be scared to lean on them.
Health
Eating too much meat could cause heart failure in older women
Women above 50 who consume a lot of protein stand a high risk of heart failure, researchers say.
The risk becomes even more increased when the source of the protein is meat.
Although the study did not prove exactly how a high protein diet affects the health of the heart, postmenopausal women with the most protein in their diet had a 60 percent increased risk of heart failure, as opposed to those who ate little protein, the study found.
Mohomad Firas Barbour, an internist at Brown University’s Alpert medical school and memorial hospital of Rhode Island in Pawtucket, said that most of the risks appear to come from animal protein.
In comparison, the women who got most of their protein from vegetable sources appeared to have a nearly 20 percent reduced risk of heart failure, Barbour said.
“The higher total dietary protein intake, that will increase the risk of heart failure, but higher vegetable protein intake appeared to be protective against heart failure,” he added.
The findings have been presented at the American Heart Association annual meeting in New Orleans, U.S.
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