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Be a bad woman for your husband in bed – Rev. Femi Akinola urges wives

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Senior Pastor of Sanctuary of Wonders International Ministry, Lagos, Rev’d Femi Akinola has advised women to give their husbands whatever they desire for their marriages to be blissful.

The pastor noted that men, naturally, like varieties and their side chicks offer them different sex styles which make them get stuck with them, urging women to follow suit to keep them.

Akinola made this known in a video posted on the Facebook page of the church saying, “Good men like bad girls but they pretend as if they don’t like them.”

The clergymen urged married women not to be stereotypic with their husbands during sexual intercourse, adding that men are not only kept by delicious meals and good behaviour but different sex styles.

He said the reason why married men cheat hinges on the fact that their wives fight them at home, while their mistresses do not.

Akionola, “Have you noticed that guys and their side chicks don’t fight? They don’t fight. It is the wives that fight their men. Men don’t like to eat one food. Men get tired of one thing, so men want different things.

“Men cheat, though I’m not supporting it, they want varieties. And you (married women) don’t have time for nonsense. (You would say) do what you want to do and get out, but the side chicks have time for nonsense. (Side chicks would tell men) turn me anywhere you want. I’m available for you.”

“Don’t be a stereotype. It is only missionary, that’s it. The Bible does not say we should do different styles. It is the different things that keep the man, not your good cooking,” Akinola stressed.

“Good men like bad girls but they pretend as if they don’t like them. Be a good woman outside in the parlour. But when you get into the room be a bad woman. Men like bad girls but they don’t show it. Why not be the bad girl? Be the baddest girl (for your husband),” he added.

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Simi Drey reveals why she called off marriage to her ex-lover

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Simi Drey, the award-winning British-Nigerian radio presenter, has opened up about her past relationship and marriage that ended in cancellation.

In a recent episode of the ‘WithChude’ podcast, Simi said her friends kept pressuring her to get married, despite her parents’ warnings about the relationship.

The London-born radio presenter said after getting engaged, she realized she wasn’t fully fulfilled and happy.

Simi said her ex-fiancé wasn’t abusive or unfaithful, but she sought a marriage built on equal love and respect.

The 26-year-old actress said months after her engagement, she expressed her reservations to him, suggesting that they work on their relationship before considering marriage.

Simi said a month later, she realized that she didn’t want to marry him.

The media personality said she ended the relationship and faced criticism from her friends.

Simi, born Simileoluwa Audrey Adejumo, also said she remained single until she met her husband Julian Flosbach in 2019.

“My ex and I did not have a perfect relationship. He never cheated. He was never abusive. But you know when you are not 100% fulfilled or happy. We do live in a part of the world where marriage is heavily emphasised especially for women. My parents never put pressure on me, but I remember my friends asking me ‘when will you get married?’” she said.

“Eventually he proposed. I remember having this apprehension that is he really the person I am going to marry? I was very close to my mum. When I called her that I was engaged she said ‘Simi do not do this’. But I told her ‘no, everything is fine’.

“My mother is not that kind of person who would ever stop me from doing something or blacklisting me. But she knew that I was not feeling whole in the relationship. I called my dad I ended the call in tears. These were not tears of joy but of apprehension.

“Two months later, I called my fiance then that we should work on our relationship first and then maybe we can think about marriage. A month later, I did not feel I wanted to marry this man.

“I wanted to marry with worth. I ended the engagement with him. And I got another criticism from people around me. I had to be truthful to myself that I was not happy in the relationship.

“It was after I left that the reality hit me. I realised to be single and happy is better than be married and miserable.

…If I do not feel respected or feel a man is superior to me because of title or his finances, it is a no.”

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Chiwetalu Agu reveals how he split bills with his wife

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Chiwetalu Agu, the ace Nigerian actor, has opened up about his financial arrangement with his wife Nkechi Agu.

In an Instagram video, the veteran engaged in a question-and-answer section with his wife on who handles different financial responsibilities.

The 68-year-old film star said he provides the money to sort all the expenses while his wife’s responsibility is to pay for the bills with the money he provided.

“I am responsible for bringing out the money to pay all the bills,” he said.

“My responsibility is to buy and pay with our money baby,” Ngozi added.

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Nigerian billionaire Geoffrey Ogunlesi engages fiancee with $500k diamond ring

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American jewelry designer Jennifer Meyer has flaunted her diamond engagement ring from fiancé Geoffrey Ogunlesi during the star-studded Baby2Baby Gala in Los Angeles on Saturday.

The couple, seen cozied up at the event, made their first red carpet appearance since announcing their engagement in September.

Meyer’s ring, estimated to be worth around $500,000 according to The Diamond Bank in Los Angeles, sparkled under the lights, drawing attention amid a glamorous crowd that included Jessica Alba, Nicole Richie, and Paris Hilton.

Meyer, who wore an ivory minidress embellished with crystals, paired her look with a silver Gucci purse, diamond earrings, and bangle bracelets.

Ogunlesi, looking dapper in a sleek black suit and tie, complemented his fiancée’s elegant style.

The ring, which Ogunlesi selected himself, is fitting for his high-profile background. The billionaire heir is the son of Nigerian business magnate Adebayo Ogunlesi, 70.

The engagement announcement came in September when Meyer shared a heartfelt Instagram post with the caption, “YES!!!” accompanied by a black heart, infinity symbol, and sparkling stars emoji. Meyer, a mother of two and close friend of stars Jennifer Aniston and Courteney Cox, went public with her relationship with Ogunlesi last November after months of dating.

Friend and fellow jewelry designer Allison Wise celebrated Meyer’s engagement on Instagram, posting a photo of the two with Meyer proudly displaying her ring.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

She has widespread experiences across different professions and skills, which includes experiences in; Marketing, Media, Broadcasting, Brand and Event Management, Administration and Management with prior stints at MTN, NAPIMS-NNPC, GLOBAL FLEET OIL AND GAS, LTV, Silverbird and a host of others

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