Relationships
As a man you must have at least N50million in your account before considering marriage, says Saida BOJ in another interview (Video)
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Social media influencer, Saida BOJ, has once again shares new updates as she declared that men should have at least N50 million in their bank accounts before considering marriage.
Saida BOJ, known for her outspoken views and vibrant online presence, made this statement during a recent interview with media personality, Blessing CEO on the latest episode of ‘Moments with Blessing CEO’.
She emphasized that financial stability is crucial for a successful marriage, and men should ensure they are financially secure before taking the plunge into matrimony.
According to Saida Boj, marriage is all about expenses and a man should be capable enough to take care of his home except his wife is understanding.
In her words, “This is not social media, as a man, you should have at least N50 million in your account. You know marriage is expenses, children unless if his wife is an understanding one and I won’t advise any woman to be understanding”.
“It’s not about getting married, don’t even have a child if you do not have at least N50 million in your account”.
Relationships
5 biggest distractions in relationships
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Do you notice that your partner isn’t as committed to the relationship as they used to be?
Your partner may seem distracted and distant. You might have asked what was wrong, but they said nothing. Yet you’ve noticed significant changes.
What could be causing this distraction? Here are the biggest relationship distractions:
1. Technology & social media
Do you find yourself scrolling through social media and laughing at TikTok videos while your partner is right there?
Constantly using social media and gadgets like video games can create a significant rift in a relationship, leaving your partner feeling neglected and distant.
For men, football season can cause a lot of distraction and space in a relationship.
It’s important to disconnect from technology and focus on quality time with your partner.
You could also pick an activity involving technology you both love like sharing reels on Instagram or TiktTok and playing videos games with each other.
2. Work pressure
If your partner is stressed at work or is faced with a lot of pressure, they can withdraw from you.
Balancing a demanding job or career with a relationship can be exhausting, leaving little time or energy for your partner.
Work stress causes tension and affects the quality of time spent together.
3. Friends and an active social life
If you are always hanging out with the ‘boys’ or the ‘girls’, that will barely leave any time for the relationship.
While friendships should not be neglected, putting too much emphasis on social activities outside of the relationship might lead to neglect of your partner.
This might lead to feelings of jealousy or insecurity.
4. A past relationship or a new crush
A recent or past ex can be a major distraction in a relationship.
Whether through past traumas, maintaining contact, or any form of communication, exes can become significant distractions.
If these distractions persist, trust can be eroded, leading to the relationship’s demise.
If they meet someone new who they fancy, they may spend considerable time trying to win their affection, and that just means less time for you.
5. Financial worries
Relationships can be strained due to financial concerns, debt, or money issues.
When one person is worried about their financial situation; it can keep couples from enjoying life and their partner’s companionship.
How to get over the distractions
Prioritize your partner.
It’s important to make time for your partner by scheduling special dates, outings and activities so you can spend quality time with each other.
If these issues arise in a relationship, it’s important to address them openly and make necessary changes.
Failure to do so can lead to the relationship’s downfall.
Relationships
‘Avoid butt lift surgery, it doesn’t end well’ — actress Jumoke George advises women
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Jumoke George, the Nollywood actress, has spoken out against the growing trend of Brazilian Butt Lift (BBL) surgeries among women.
In a recent Instagram post, George expressed concerns that some women are risking their lives for unnecessary cosmetic procedures.
The movie star also questioned the motivations behind undergoing BBL surgery, asking if it’s solely to impress men.
“Are you doing it just because of pe**s or what? Are you not beautiful enough?” George asked women.
The actress emphasized that women should appreciate their natural beauty, created in God’s image.
She also highlighted the potential health risks associated with BBL, including knee problems due to the added weight.
“Women, what is the colour of our problem? Because if I say I understand I am lying. The scripture says every creature was made in the image of God the most high,” she said.
“You females looking at me whose image do you think you were created? Are you telling God that He does not know what He was doing? God is perfect. What then are we looking for? God has given some long life but they intentionally cut off their lives.
“What exactly are you looking for in doing BBL? You just want to enlarge your buttocks… Are you not beautiful enough? If any man tells you that you are not beautiful enough and go enhance what God has given you or recreate yourself, tell him he is not in his right senses.
“You hear news about ladies going for BBL and losing their lives. Something that people like me who has it is even feeling it like a weight. Because when it gets to a stage it contributes to knee issues. Hardly will you see someone with big butt that would not have knee problem.
“Stop all these BBL thing. Go and rest. I know some people will listen while others will not. But it saddens my heart.”
Relationships
Yhemolee holds white wedding in Lagos
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Yhemolee, the nightlife influencer and media personality, has walked down the aisle with Tayo B, his partner.
The white wedding was held in Lagos with family and friends in attendance.
Yhemolee was adorned in a white tailcoat, black trousers, and bow tie while his wife wore a stunning white lace bridal gown.
In a now-viral video of the ceremony, the couple could be seen exchanging their vows in front of a cleric and sharing a kiss afterward.
The lovebirds held their traditional wedding ceremony on Saturday in Lagos. Their civil wedding took place on August 13.
Yhemolee proposed to Tayo in July. The couple who had reportedly been together for a while parted ways over claims of infidelity in 2023.
They rekindled their love affair earlier this year after Yhemolee publicly apologised to Tayo.
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