Cardi B, the US rapper, has responded to her estranged husband Offset‘s accusation that she had sex with another man while pregnant with their third child.

The couple, who married in 2017, have had a tumultuous relationship, marked by several public breakups and reconciliations.

They have three children together: Kulture, Wave, and their youngest, born recently, after Cardi B filed for divorce.

In a recent Instagram live session, Cardi B addressed her relationship with Offset and accused him of infidelity with multiple women.

Offset joined the session and also accused her of cheating during her pregnancy.

“You f**ked with a baby inside tell the truth!!” Offset wrote.

In response, Cardi B did not deny the accusation but pointed out that Offset had cheated on her first.

She argued that she would never sleep with another man out of revenge and added that she did not care.

“I do not give a fk na I will expose my own tea, I don’t care! You should be happy that I am a real gangsta a* b*tch,” she said.

”I will never fk a na just to get back, na I will never do that. I will only f**k a na that’s better than you.”

In another video, the rapper said: “Thank you for my kids though, all three of them, I don’t regret any of them but I regret you”.

“You’re a good daddy, you’re all right but I don’t regret any of them. But fk you! I’m too good for you and I’ve always been too good for you n*a.”

Raising children is undoubtedly a complex and challenging task, and every parent wants to do their best to ensure their child grows up happy, healthy, and well-adjusted. However, some parents may inadvertently spoil their children in the quest to provide the best for their kids.

Spoiling a child can have long-term negative consequences on their development, behaviour, and ability to cope with life’s challenges.

Below, we will explain five common ways parents might spoil their children and strategies to avoid these pitfalls.

1. Giving in to every demand
   When parents constantly give in to their child’s demands, they teach the child that they can get whatever they want, whenever they want.

This behaviour can lead to a sense of entitlement and a lack of appreciation for the value of things.

However, this may lead to the child developing unrealistic expectations and becoming easily frustrated when they don’t get their way.

It can also hinder the child’s ability to handle disappointment and build resilience.

Control tactics:
Set boundaries: Establish and enforce rules and limits as a parent. Explain to your child why they cannot always have what they want.
Teach delayed gratification: Encourage your child to wait for certain things and understand saving and earning rewards.

2. Overprotecting
   While it’s natural to want to protect your child from harm, excessive protection can prevent them from learning to handle challenges and setbacks independently.

Therefore, the child may develop anxiety or fear when faced with new situations.

They might also need more problem-solving skills and confidence in their abilities.

Control tactics:
Encourage independence in them: Allow your child to take on age-appropriate responsibilities and make their own decisions.
Let them fail: Permit your child to experience failure and learn from their mistakes. Only offer support and guidance rather than solving problems for them.

3. Not enforcing consequences
   When parents fail to enforce consequences for misbehaviour, children learn that their actions do not have repercussions.

This can lead to a lack of respect for rules and authority.

Hence, the child may develop behavioural problems and struggle with self-discipline.

They might also need help in school and social settings where rules and borders are essential.

Control tactics:
Constant discipline: Implement consistent and fair consequences for misbehaviour. Ensure that the child understands the link between their actions and the consequences.
Give positive reinforcement: Encourage good behaviour with positive reinforcement, such as praise or rewards, to promote accountability.

4. Overindulging with material possessions
   Providing children with excess toys, gadgets, and other material possessions can lead to a sense of materialism and a lack of appreciation for what they have.

The child may develop a constant desire for more, never feeling satisfied with what they have.

Also, they might need help understanding the value of money and hard work.

Control tactics:
Limit gifts
Encourage gratitude from them:

5. Failing to teach responsibility
   When parents do everything for their children, they miss important lessons about responsibility and self-sufficiency.

This can limit the child’s development of essential life skills.

This may result in the child becoming overly reliant on others to meet their needs and might cause them to struggle with basic tasks and responsibilities as they grow older.

Control tactics
Assign chores: To help your child develop a sense of responsibility, give your child chores and responsibilities around the house appropriate for their age.
Teach self-care skills: Encourage your child to take care of their own needs, such as dressing themselves, making their bed, and packing their school bag.
These are five signs you’re spoiling your child as a parent.

By recognising and addressing these common ways of spoiling or harming a child, parents can help their children grow into well-rounded, responsible, and resilient individuals.

However, there is always time to make positive changes and guide your child towards a healthier and more balanced upbringing.

Stephanie Amata, the daughter of Fred Amata, the ace Nigerian actor, has tied the knot with her partner.

Agatha Amata, the ex-wife of Fred, took to Instagram on Wednesday to share photos from the wedding ceremony.

In her post, she expressed joy and offered blessings for the new chapter in her daughter’s life.

“Your vows make me proud and happy. I celebrate you my beautiful daughter @baby5teph,” she wrote.

“As you begin this new chapter in your life, my blessings and best wishes go with you. I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness together, may your union be blessed with all of life’s goodness. Congratulations @baby5teph 💐💜😍.”

Details of Stephanie’s partner — including his name and nationality — were not revealed as well as the date and location of the ceremony.

Stephanie is Fred and Agatha’s only daughter. She has a brother, Oreva, who got married in June 2023.

Fred and Agatha, the CEO of RaveTV and Trend FM100.9, divorced in 2005 due to irreconcilable differences.

In 2022, Agatha reflected on the breakup. She revealed that while they tried to make it work, they ultimately decided to part ways for their happiness.

“An unhappy home can never breed happy children. Did both of us try? Yes, we did. It just wasn’t working,” she said.