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Odukoya’s children open up about coping with grief of losing parents
Jimmy, Tobi, and Toluwani, the children of Bimbo and Taiwo Odukoya, the founder of Fountain of Life Church, have opened up about coping with the grief of losing their parents.
Bimbo died in the 2005 Sosoliso plane crash which occurred in Port Harcourt, the Rivers capital. Taiwo, on the other hand, passed away on August 7, 2023, in the United States.
Speaking on the Truthable podcast hosted by Toluwani, the siblings talked about the profound impact of losing Bimbo and Taiwo and how their Christian upbringing was instrumental in dealing with grief.
Tobi said: “Part of the processing was identifying all those different layers and walking through them. And giving myself the grace to realise that it was not something to happen overnight. It took me many years to process. I understood there is no timeline for grief”.
“With Dad, I chose to see the goodness of God in my troubles. For the first time in my life, I always admired Dad because he felt like an anomaly. How can you go back and worship when you were grieving?”
On his part, Jimmy said he emulates his late father after seeing the way he handled his mother’s death.
“With mum it was sudden. At the time, my biggest fear in life was losing a member of my family. Mum was the most important woman in my life. When that happened, I felt I was at a crossroads with God and had two choices. Either raise a middle finger to God and say I am done or the other option is just to stay there and cry. And I thought to myself, if I take the other option of walking away, I was still going to come back eventually.” he said.
“I remember God telling me now that I have lost a member of my family do I not realise that I am now fearless? The worst has happened. What can the devil use to scare me?
“With Dad, I did not see it coming. The man was healthy as a fox. He was so full of life. I would have wagered him to be 85 and still preaching. I have to attribute a lot to him. The strength he displayed through his personal losses. I had that example. I had that blueprint. I saw his unwavering faith and strength. And now being thrust into a position where I was required to have faith.
“It was easy to do that because I have had such an exemplary model. I once asked him how he had managed to continue in spite of all he had been through dealing with the loss of mum, his sister. And he said because God has not failed me yet.
“For me, having that kind of mindset and navigating through Dad’s departure, I knew what I had to do. I knew that I could not afford to fold. I knew that I had to see God from a different perspective. God had prepared us to navigate the seas of our lives.”
Also speaking, Toluwani said: “I know one thing that has kept us as elders and made us who we are today, is our knowledge of who God is, knowing the God of our parents. So even when our parents are not around we still know God”.
Watch the interview below:
Entertainment
Stormzy banned from driving after mobile phone use
Stormzy, the British rapper, has been banned from driving for nine months after pleading guilty to using a phone while driving.
The 31-year-old rapper, whose real name is Michael Ebenazer Owuo Junior, was stopped by an off-duty police officer while driving a Rolls-Royce on Addison Road, West Kensington, London, in March last year.
During the stop, the officer reportedly knocked on Owuo’s tinted passenger window and told him to “get rid of your tints and get off your phone”.
Initially, Stormzy denied the claim but later wrote to the court to change his plea to guilty.
Andrew Sweet, the presiding judge, said Stormzy’s driving record was “not good” and described his action as “dangerous and irresponsible”.
The district judge then banned the rapper, who was not present in court, from driving for nine months and fined him £2,010.
Before Thursday’s hearing, the singer had six points on his licence.
In the UK, drivers can be disqualified if they build up 12 or more penalty points within three years.
In July 2024, Stormzy admitted to driving a Lamborghini Urus that had front windows illegally tinted to only 4% light transmission, violating the 70% requirement.
Prosecutor Alice Holloway said the vehicle’s use was dangerous and put “vulnerable road users at risk”.
Defending the rapper, Peter Csemiczky, his solicitor, said his client apologised and had removed the tints.
Entertainment
Adanma Luke narrates how she contemplated suicide after Jnr Pope’s death due to online backlash
Adanma Luke, the producer of the movie in which late actor Junior Pope was supposed to be featured, has detailed her struggle with depression and suicidal thoughts following the tragic incident.
Pope died on April 10 in a boat accident on the River Niger in Asaba, Delta state. He was on his way to a movie location when the incident occurred.
The accident claimed the lives of four other crew members, leaving the film industry in shock.
In a lengthy Instagram post, the filmmaker described the period after Pope’s death as “very dark”. She revealed that she contemplated suicide due to the overwhelming backlash she received on social media.
The actress also shared that she had to stop breastfeeding her three-month-old baby due to the emotional toll of the situation.
Adanma expressed her gratitude to Uche Nancy, a movie producer who stood by her during the challenging time.
She praised Uche for her emotional support and unwavering encouragement which helped her navigate the difficult period.
“With so much tears in my eyes, after so much pressure and expenses in April I reached out to this beautiful soul @uchenancy and she said Ada, don’t worry I dey for you. Just let me know if there’s more to do and i won’t abandon you. She spoke as if she was me and gave me instances of why i should stay alive and strong,” she wrote.
“It lifted my soul even though I was contemplating suicide at that time and lost interest in whatever was happening and just needed to exit this world because it was indeed a very dark period for me. I had to stop breastfeeding in less than 3 months due so much sadness in my heart, depression, calls and hash words from families of the deceased and online fans.
“To be sincere I was online because my phone was the closest thing to me at that point. My mom took away my child so i don’t feed or breastfeed my child with sadness. I only come online to cry away my pains from the hurtful words being thrown at me and feel a little better from some good friends and fans who choose to love me regardless.
“Whatever I did or posted then was what my mindset was all about. Please help me say a kind prayer for this beautiful soul @uchenancy because she didn’t just help me with the huge financial support but also made sure I’m doing okay till now. I can’t end my 2024 without appreciating you my beautiful hardworking woman @uchenancy may God continue to bless you richly.”
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‘I cried first time in 4 years after seeing God’ — Ruger testifies at Celestial Church
Michael Adebayo, the Nigerian singer better known as Ruger, has testified about his encounter with God at his childhood church, Celestial Church of Christ (CCC) in Lagos.
The ‘Asiwaju’ hitmaker attended the church’s crossover service, a tradition he said he had missed for two years due to being outside the country.
The singer said because of his determination to be in church this year, he instructed his manager to cancel any scheduled shows that might conflict with the service.
Ruger, who was overcome with emotion, said he shed tears for the first time in four years after his encounter with God.
He also expressed his gratitude to God, the congregation, and the church authority for their spiritual guidance and support.
“Happy New Year to everybody. Today, I am so happy to be here. Today, my manager texted me and told me that I have one show tonight. And I told him to cancel it that I did not care,” he said.
“I have to be in church because in 2021, I was in church here. I missed the crossover service for 2022 and 2023 because I was outside the country. I told my manager to close all shows before the crossover service because I would not miss it. Whatever it is, we are not taking it,” he said.
“I thank God. I have not cried in like four years. Today, I saw God again, and I cried. I thank God for my life. I thank God for everybody here. I thank God for everybody who has nurtured me since I started in this church.
“This is a very caring church. Because, if this church is not great, great people would not come out of this church.”
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