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How to make bondage a part of your sex life

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Are you missing out by not engaging in bondage during sex?

Bondage during sex has always existed, but with the books and movie, ‘Fifty Shades of Grey’, made it much more popular.

Bondage sex refers to a situation where a person’s movement is restricted either with cuffs, ties or any instrument that may keep them in bondage.

Consent is crucial when it comes to bondage. If you just met someone, you shouldn’t be trying such dangerous games with them. Also, don’t let anyone convince you to do it if you are not comfortable with it.

Before you begin games of bondage with your partner, you both must have complete and total trust for each other because it involves vulnerability.

Having a safe word is also very important because you need it when they are getting hurt or uncomfortable.

You might need flurry cuffs – real handcuffs can bruise your wrist and cut off circulation, and you really don’t want that.

You might also use some blindfolds or a silk scarf to cover your eyes. You might also tie your partner’s hands and legs with their permission with these.

Many sex shops sell toys that can keep a woman’s arms and legs tied up at the same time.

Now that you have your materials ready, you can take turns kissing and massaging each other with blindfolds on. You can also tie and blindfold your partner during sex. Ask them to moan if they are enjoying whatever it is you are doing.

Besides the obvious point that it is voyeuristic and may potentially spice up your sex life. Bondage situations are a sexual kink to many people for some reasons;

  1. When you are tied up, you can relax and enjoy the sexual experience without doing anything.
  2. When your eyes are closed, all your senses come alive and you really feel what is being done to your body.
  3. The person who isn’t tied up feels intense power and dominance, and that might be thrilling to them.
  4. Some people like to act like they are struggling while tied up to build up adrenaline and anticipation.
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Nollywood actress Stephanie Okereke-Linus and her husband, Linus Idahosa, on Sunday, celebrated their 13th wedding anniversary.

The actress took to her Instagram page, @stephanielinus, to celebrate the milestone with a display of a picture of herself and her husband.

She wrote, “Cheers to 🥂Thirteen years of amazingness and building beautiful memories and dreams together.

“Each year, always better than the last.

“Happy 13th Anniversary, to us🌹” #Thirteen Years Strong #Happy Anniversary.”

Some fans also took to the comment section to congratulate the couple.

@Joycekalu said, “Happy anniversary sis.”

@Yomicasual, with an emoji wrote, “🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.”

@Kelechiamadiobi said, “Big congratulations.”

Also, @DewumiHappy wrote “Happy anniversary 😍😍.”

The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the couple got married in April, 21,2012, in Paris, France, at a private wedding ceremony.

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Ashanti confirms pregnancy as she announces engagement to Nelly

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Ashanti, an American singer and songwriter, has turned to Instagram to announce her engagement to rapper Nelly.

She also announced that they are expecting a kid together.

This comes after they reignited their relationship last year.

The pair announced their engagement and pregnancy to Essence.

“This new year of my life is such a blessing full of love, hope, and anticipation,” Ashanti told the outlet. “Motherhood is something that I have looked forward to, and sharing this with my family, fiancé, and loyal fans, who have been so supportive of my career, is an amazing experience.”

The “Foolish” singer also posted a video on social media advertising her and Nelly’s brand, Proov, which offers an at-home pregnancy test. In the footage, Ashanti appears to be getting ready to walk onstage when someone asks how much time she will need.

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‘I didn’t do it’ — Korra Obidi kicks as ex-husband accuses her of cheating during pregnancy

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Korra Obidi, the Nigerian dancer, has denied a claim by Justin Dean, her ex-husband, that she cheated on him while pregnant with their second child.

In a video, Dean said Korra traveled to Nigeria for a friend’s wedding when she was five months pregnant.

He alleged that Korra slept with her friend’s fiance. He also shared what he claimed to be chats between his ex-wife and the man.

“Korra, my ex-wife went to Nigeria for her friend’s wedding and slept with this woman’s fiance, while she was 5 months pregnant with our daughter,” he said.

“I was so upset when I found out that she has been sleeping around. It was very risky. She could have contracted SDTs while she was pregnant. That is a big deal.”

Reacting to Dean’s claim of infidelity in an Instagram post on Wednesday, Korra she “did not do it”.

“Long story short, I didn’t do it. If you believe, your papa papaaa,” she wrote.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

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