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Why women agree to be side chicks

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Here are five reasons why some women are cool with being side chicks – explained by other women.

It’s quite ironical that there are women who willingly agree to be side chicks.

With the rate at which women cry foul when they’re cheated on and how society condemns cheating men, one expects that women would value exclusivity beyond compromise but that’s apparently not the case.

For some reason, some babes have no qualms with being side chicks and would gladly be your available second choice despite a knowledge of your real babe.

According to women, here are five reasons why this happens:

  1. Convenience
    According to Bloom, a millennial who just concluded NYSC, women agree to side chicks roles because of the emotional convenience that often comes with the it.

Not much is expected of you. Your ‘boyfriend’ spends most of his time with the main chick, alleviating some of the ‘pressure’ that would have automatically been on you.

  1. Attention
    Chinaza says “it is a matter of attention.”

If a guy treats a girl right and somehow satisfies every of her emotional and other demands, I don’t think she’s going to be bothered that there’s someone else, especially if she has had bad, toxic relationships in the past, she says.

  1. Money
    Financial benefits is all that counts to some women. If a guy has deep pockets, they won’t mind being his side chick. So far bills are being paid, no problem.
  2. Sex
    According to Ashley Moore, a relationship columnist at Humans Mag, “Another reward is the sexual pleasure. Let’s be honest; a man is not going to supply a side-chick with anything unless there is some type of intercourse involved.”

And if the man somehow offers nothing but bomb sex, it becomes all too easy for the woman to consent to being the second choice.

  1. Too late to stop
    Sometimes women get deceived into these relationships, only to then find out along the line that there’s actually someone else.

At that point however, they’d gone so far that going back and being left with no one is no longer a palatable option.

So they keep on holding on to the promise that soon enough, the guy would become fed up of the main chick and dump her.

Sadly, this hardly ever happens.

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50 Cent’s babymama, Daphne Joy accuses rapper of rape, assault

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Daphne Joy, ex-girlfriend of the American rapper 50 Cent, has levied accusations of rape and assault against the G-Unit leader.

These claims surfaced in response to reports indicating that 50 Cent was pursuing sole custody of their son, after Joy was named in Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones’ lawsuit against Sean “Diddy” Combs, accusing the media mogul of sex trafficking and abuse.

In an Instagram post, Joy criticised 50 Cent for his alleged neglect as a father to their son, Sire, and accused him of sexually assaulting and physically abusing her during their relationship.

“We moved to New York to give you the opportunity to be a father to your son and you saw him 10 times out of the 2 years that we lived 1 mile away from you.

“I am tired of upholding and protecting an image to our son that you have never even earned,” the post read partly.

“Let’s put the real focus on your true evil actions of raping me and physically abusing me. You are no longer my oppressor and my God will handle you from this point on.

“You have permanently damaged the last hope I had for you as a father to preserve our family with these last and final false slams made against me. You have broken our hearts for the last and final time,” she added.

In response to Joy’s allegations, 50 Cent swiftly issued a statement through his representative, refuting her claims.

He asserted that Joy’s accusations were driven by his recent pursuit of sole custody of their 12-year-old son.

“The most recent false and baseless accusations by Daphne Joy are clearly in response to my decision to seek sole custody of my son.

“My son, Sire is my main priority and keeping him in a safe environment is my only focus at this time,” the statement read inter alia.

50 Cent explained that his decision to seek sole custody of their son was to protect him, giving that Lil Rod’s suit against Diddy indicted his babymama.

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I divorced Kanye West because of his personality, says Kim Kardashian

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American reality star Kim Kardashian has revealed she divorced controversial billionaire rapper Kanye West because of his personality.

She said that Kanye West was “the best rapper of all time and richest black man in America” but lacked character.

Speaking in a recent episode of the Big Boss show, Kardashian said, “I married the best rapper of all time. Not only that, he is the richest black man in America, a talented legit genius who gave me four incredible kids.

“So when I divorced him you have to know it came down to just one thing, his personality.”

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West officially finalised their divorce on November 29, 2022.

According to documents, the former couple have joint custody of their four children: North, Saint, Chicago and Psalm.

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Six tips for a memorable wedding night

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The wedding night is one of the most anticipated moments in the life of intending couples.After the period of dating, preparation for the wedding, and shopping stress, a memorable night is the least you deserve to kick-start your married life.

The guests are gone, the party is over, what next?

Relax

This is the very first step in enjoying your maiden night as a couple. Get your mind of all worries and concentrate on each other at this point in the day.

Clean up

Have a bath and cleanse yourself of all the sweat and multiple scents from hugs and pecks. You don’t want to turn off your partner with an unpleasant scent.

Make it more interesting by having your bath together. Bathing each other could be a nice way to kick-start your romance.

Have a surprise

How about leaving a lingerie on the bed for your new bride or getting your husband his favourite perfume?

Make plans for food

In the heat and excitement of the wedding, couples may forget or be too overwhelmed to eat. So, make plans for food to be made available when you are finally alone. Remember, you need all the energy you can gather.

Prepare your body

As your wedding approaches, make conscious efforts to give your body a shine. Go for that manicure, get that facial, see your dentist to give your teeth a spark and burn that excess fat too.

You need to look your best for your partner.

Get intimate

It is not cast in stone that a couple must have sex on their wedding night but getting intimate is one way to bond with your partner, especially those who have embraced abstinence till marriage.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

She has widespread experiences across different professions and skills, which includes experiences in; Marketing, Media, Broadcasting, Brand and Event Management, Administration and Management with prior stints at MTN, NAPIMS-NNPC, GLOBAL FLEET OIL AND GAS, LTV, Silverbird and a host of others

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