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Five ways to prevent unauthorised sharing of intimate videos and photos



As society advances in the digital age, the drawbacks of modern technology have become more evident, especially with the continued rise in cases of revenge porn.

Several well-known individuals in Nigeria have encountered the distressing situation of their personal photos or videos going viral online. In recent times, celebrities such as Tiwa Savage, Oxlade, and Empress have all experienced the unfortunate exposure of their private videos due to unauthorised leaks.

While most of these celebrities have been able to bounce back from the unpleasant situation, it goes without saying that a viral sex tape could have lasting consequences on a person’s reputation and career.

Here are five ways to avoid getting your intimate pictures or videos leaked on the Internet.

1. Check out for spy cameras

While individuals might avoid taking intimate videos of themselves, unscrupulous partners can proceed to violate their privacy by installing private cameras in private spaces. Therefore it is necessary to always check such spaces such as hotel rooms, before engaging in intimate activities.

A way to check for spy cameras is to cut off all light sources from a room. Then switch on your smartphone’s camera and check around the room. Focus on clocks, lampholders, bulbs, and windows. Most cameras use Infrared light, if present in the room, it will appear as a red dot on the screen of your phone.

2. Encode files

Another way to prevent nudes from leaking on the Internet is to encode such pictures or video files. Set strong passwords for the folders in which these are stored to prevent access by unwanted parties. You can also make use of encryption applications which turn your files into unreadable code that can only be accessed with the appropriate encryption key. This adds an extra layer of security, making it harder for unauthorized individuals to access and share your private files.

3. Strengthen device security

If you store private videos or pictures on your devices, endeavour to set strong passwords, passcodes, or biometric authentication methods such as fingerprint or facial recognition. Also, ensure two-factor authentication for social media accounts to prevent your private messages from being accessed by unwanted parties.

4. Avoid sharing explicit pictures and videos

Another effective way to prevent leaks is to not share explicit files with anyone in the first place. Several people become victims of revenge porn because an intimate partner violates their trust. It is always important to note that once nude pictures or videos are shared, you lose control over how these files are used, even if you trust the recipient.

5. Digital Safety

Practise preventive digital safety measures to ensure unwanted parties do not gain access to your devices. Do not share passwords to your accounts or devices. Be cautious of visiting websites, downloading apps or clicking on suspicious links, from unknown sources. Always ensure to protect your devices with antivirus software to prevent attacks.

However, it is important to note that sharing a person’s explicit videos or pictures on the Internet is a crime in Nigeria. The Cybercrimes (Prohibition, Prevention, Etc) Act 2015 penalises the sharing and publication of messages that are “pornographic or of an indecent, obscene or menacing character” in order to cause “annoyance, inconvenience, danger, obstruction, insult, injury, criminal intimidation, enmity, hatred, ill will or needless anxiety” to another person.

Section 24 of the Act provides that; (a) Any person who knowingly or intentionally sends a message or other matter by means of computer systems or network that is grossly offensive, pornographic or of an indecent, obscene or menacing character or causes any such message or matter to be so sent; or

(b) he knows to be false for the purpose of causing annoyance, inconvenience, danger, obstruction, insult, injury, criminal intimidation, enmity, hatred, ill will or needless anxiety to another or causes such a message to be sent: commits an offence under this Act and shall be liable on conviction to a fine of not more than N7, 000,000.00 or imprisonment for a term of not more than 3 years or to both such fine and imprisonment.”

Hence, a victim of revenge porn can report such a perpetrator to the police and also contact sexual assault referral centres for support.


5 reasons age gaps matter when it comes to dating




Have soulmates lost each other because of differences in age?.

In a world where we have levels, classes and statuses for relationships, there is a category for age when it comes to dating.

Certainly, it would feel somehow if an 18-year-old girl is seen with a 30-year-old man. But 15 years later, when that same 18-year-old is now 33 and the 30-year-old is now 45, is it still considered a societal taboo?

In my opinion, anyone between the ages of 21 to 25 years is allowed to date whomever, regardless of age, class or status because they are considered mature in the eyes of everyone.

Do age gaps matter when it comes to dating or is the side-eye for them placed to avoid chaotic or societal issues such as manipulation or abuse of the younger party in the relationship?

Outside the taboo politics, age gaps can be a factor in dating for several reasons and can influence compatibility in various ways. These include;

People of different ages often have different life priorities and goals. For example, someone in their 20s may be more focused on building a career or exploring their independence, while someone in their 40s might be looking to settle down and start a family.

These differences can create challenges if the individuals involved are not aligned.

Society often holds certain expectations and stereotypes about age differences in relationships. Couples with substantial age gaps may face judgment, criticism, or interrogations from friends, family, or the broader community.

This social pressure can add stress to the relationship.

In relationships with significant age disparities, there’s the potential for power imbalances. The older partner may have more life experience and financial stability, which can affect decision-making and influence the relationship.

People of similar ages are more likely to have shared cultural, experiences and interests. While age differences can certainly bring fresh perspectives to a relationship, substantial gaps may make it harder to connect on a deeper level.

In some places, there are legal age restrictions on dating or sexual relationships, particularly when one person is a minor. These laws exist to protect individuals who may be vulnerable due to their age.

It’s important to note that while age can be a factor, it doesn’t have to be a strict limit. Many successful and fulfilling relationships have substantial age differences and thrive because the individuals involved share mutual respect and common values.

Would you consider dating someone with significant age difference?

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Six tips for building a healthy romantic relationship




You know that thing they say about not taking relationship advice from a single person? Well, that is going to happen if you read through this article. But believe me, couples in healthy relationships swear by them.

No matter how beautiful a romantic relationship is, they all are not without their ups and downs. And hence, the need for some advice now and then.

But we both know that not all relationship advice is good (even though some are dished out with good intentions). However, we must acknowledge that some advice when it comes to romantic relationships is pretty solid and hits the nail on the proverbial head.

So what constitutes good advice? In this piece, we’ll be touching on some of them and although I label them as good advice, for you, it might not be so.

  • Do Not Let Third Parties Control Your Relationship

It’s good for the people in your life informed about certain aspects of your relationship. However, this shouldn’t be without boundaries.

Relationships strive for intimacy and this can only happen between the two people involved in the relationship and no one more. For this reason, third-party opinions and control should never have a place in such a relationship.

Let the people in your life know their boundaries when it comes to your romantic relationship. And instead of taking everyone of your relationship problem to the most available friend or family member, introspect, talk things over with your partner, or go to someone who has credible experience in relationships for advice.

Keep your relationship more intimate than “out there” to avoid unnecessary drama.

  • Be Kind To Your Partner Before Getting Mad At Them

Whether you like it or not, your partner is human first before being the one you love. And hence, they’ll be times their weaknesses will pop out.

You’ll be greeted by their ugly sides and it’ll not be pretty at all. But always try to remember to think kindly towards your partner before getting angry at them.

If you do this, you’ll soon discover that most of the time a loved one is being annoying, it’s usually triggered by dissatisfaction, or unhappiness, from their end. Sometimes, they might be acting up just because they’re trying to feel less overwhelmed as they are.

  • Learn To Really Speak To Each Other

You’ve probably heard a million times that communication is key in romantic relationships.

In fact, you’ve heard this phrase one-too-many times that you’ve gotten so familiar with it that it doesn’t really mean a lot anymore.

But communicating is very important. It is what fuels every relationship including a Romantic one. This doesn’t come naturally so some extra effort must be put into learning each other’s styles of communication. What is your partner’s love language? What is their conflict style? What sort of tone do they most communicate in? When are they the most comfortable to talk? All of these and more, you must learn to talk effectively with your partner.

  • Yes, Spice Things Up!

Another phrase that has become mundane but is quite important is this.

Relationships will grow dull, routines could grow mundane, and being with the same person could cause too much familiarity.

Hence, “spicing things up” — creatively adopting new habits, exploring exciting things together will stir a ripple effect in your relationship.

  • Be Ready To Sacrifice

As far as love is concerned, sacrifices are a must. Get into romantic relationships knowing fully well you make sacrifices.

Be ready to sacrifice for the one you love and be ready to do so without a grudge.

  • Always Remember To Be An Individual

It’s quite easy to want to fade into the person with whom you’re in a relationship. But do not fall for this trap.

Always remember that before meeting your love interest, you were an individual first. Keep this in mind and work hard at being yourself while in a relationship. Pursue your dreams, (but by all means, make sacrifices here and there), marry your beliefs with that of your partner, all in all, always remember to lend your voice in your relationship. Express your thoughts and feelings.

Do any of these make sense to you? Would you reconsider taking relationship advice from another single person? Let me know in the comments.

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Sophie Turner sues Joe Jonas for wrongfully detaining their kids in the US




Sophie Turner has slammed her estranged husband Joe Jonas with a lawsuit, claiming that he has held their children’s passports hostage.

According to People Magazine, the Game of Thrones actress has called for “the immediate return of children wrongfully removed or wrongfully retained,” in the paperwork filed on September 20, 2023.

Sophie, filed these documents in a federal court, citing the international treaty, Hague Convention which deals with child abduction across country lines.

The actress detailed that she and Jonas had agreed to raise their two daughters Willa and J.D. in England as their ‘forever home’ just in December of 2022, which was why they sold their Miami home in preparation. She also stressed in the paperwork that before the divorce papers were filed, Jonas was in temporary custody of their girls because he had more daylight hours to spend with them in comparison to her and her gruelling shooting hours in the UK.

The actress also disclosed that she found out that Jonas had filed for divorce from her via social media days after he filed. Turner’s paperwork stated that afterwards, she visited her estranged husband to discuss taking the children back to England with her, during which he “refused to return the passports to the Mother and refuses to send the children home to England with the Mother.”

Jonas filed for divorce from Turner on September 1, 2023, to the sheer shock of their fans especially because Turner had posted a lovey-dovey picture of them a week before. Now, according to her, their marriage had an abrupt breakdown after their fight on August 15.

The two met in 2016 and got engaged a year later, then wed in two ceremonies: the first a private, intimate ceremony in Las Vegas and the second, a larger wedding in Paris.

Now it seems like the ‘picture-perfect’ marriage is crumbling, and it’s crumbling fast.

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Bodex F. Hungbo, SPMIIM is a multiple award-winning Nigerian Digital Media Practitioner, Digital Strategist, PR consultant, Brand and Event Expert, Tv Presenter, Tier-A Blogger/Influencer, and a top cobbler in Nigeria.

She has widespread experiences across different professions and skills, which includes experiences in; Marketing, Media, Broadcasting, Brand and Event Management, Administration and Management with prior stints at MTN, NAPIMS-NNPC, GLOBAL FLEET OIL AND GAS, LTV, Silverbird and a host of others

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