Relationships
5 signs your boyfriend hates you and wants to break up
He loves me, or he loves me not? These might be the questions on your mind when your boyfriend starts acting strange, and you can place a finger on what’s wrong.
He might be harbouring resentment, or his feelings have disappeared, but he can’t say it.
Here are the signs your relationship is over:
1. He says meanest things because he’s always irritated
When a man is over you, he has no filter in his mouth; he says the meanest things because he’s trying to trigger you and get you to break up with him.
The way you eat, dress, walk, talk, everything about you annoys him. Imagine you ask him, “Where are your keys?” and he replies, “You always ask stupid questions,” or you ask him, “How’s my hair?” and he says, “You’ve done better hairstyles.”
2. He keeps his distance
He suddenly asks so coldly—no call, no texts, no dates. This was someone who couldn’t stop talking to you on the phone, and used to set up dates and outings. All of a sudden, he seems so far away and is suddenly too busy for you.
3. He doesn’t care about you
Whether you had a bad day at work or school or you are going through something particularly depressing, he doesn’t care, and he lets you know that by his actions.
You find yourself asking and begging him to show some concern. He can even forget your birthday and anything else that’s important to you. Ladies, when this happens, it’s time to move on.
4. You ask what’s wrong, and he says “nothing”
Yes, things are bad; you can sense it, but he won’t admit it. He doesn’t call or text you anymore. When you first met him, it didn’t look like he had a life outside of you; now he is cold and distant.
You call him, and he doesn’t pick up. When he does pick, his responses are as cold as Canada in the winter, so you try to talk through the issues by discussing how you have noticed the changes, and he shuts you down by saying nothing is wrong.
5. He’s hanging out with other people
It could be that he’s spending more time with ‘his guys’ or he’s going out on dates with other women. Either way, you can sense the shift in his attention.
Sometimes, when you call him, his line is always engaged; He’s online but your texts go unresponded. He’s always talking to someone else, and that someone isn’t you.
Ladies, protect your mental health by ending the relationship when you aren’t being treated right, he knows what he’s doing and it’s not just in your mind.
Relationships
I’ve never ended a relationship over infidelity, says Tiwa Savage
Tiwa Savage, the Nigerian singer, has revealed that she has never ended a romantic relationship over infidelity.
In an interview on The Receipts Podcast, Savage disclosed that every man she has been involved with has cheated on her.
The 44-year-old singer said she always forgives infidelity because it is not a deal breaker for her in a relationship. She however stressed that disrespect is what she cannot tolerate.
She added that drug abuse, emotional neglect and ghosting are some of the reasons why she left her previous relationships.
“I have been cheated on before. I found out and forgave every time,” she said.
“Every man I have ever been with has cheated, and I’ve never left them because of it. I’ve left for other reasons, but not because they cheated. Cheating is not my hill.
“What hurts is the lies about it though. Maybe other people had known and then I kind of felt stupid about it, or they’ve known for a long time or if it’s close to home.
“The disrespect of it is why I could leave but the actual act of it? I’ve never left a man cause of it. I’ve left for so many other reasons like drug abuse or emotional abuse or being emotionally abused, being ghosted, stealing, and financial things. But that cheating thing, nah.
“I know you it’s bad that we’ve gotten to a point where cheating isn’t a deal-breaker. But I feel like we’ve always been here even back in the day, even going back to the Bible and history.”
Relationships
Damilola breaks up with Portable after he publicly insulted her
Damilola Adeyemi, the girlfriend of singer Portable, has announced the end of their relationship after he “publicly insulted” her during a TikTok live session.
The incident occurred on Wednesday when Portable criticised Damilola for being online late at night. He also accused her of engaging in “polygamy and prostitution”.
“What are you doing online at this time? Do you want to be practicing polygamy. Do I not tell you not to be coming online at this time?” he asked.
“Are you a prostitute? What is a housewife doing online at the time? Are you a prostitute?”
Reacting via an Instagram post, Damilola expressed her frustration and humiliation, stating that she was “done” with the relationship.
“I’m done. This is too much for me. I can’t take this embarrassment again. Oloriburuku somebody,” she wrote.
“I’m gone for good. Go and eat your house.”
Relationships
Selena Gomez announces engagement
Selena Gomez, the US singer and actress, has revealed she is engaged to songwriter Benny Blanco.
In a recent Instagram post with her 423 million followers, the most-followed woman on the photo-sharing platform shared a photo of a large engagement ring with the caption “forever begins now”.
She also posted a picture of her and Blanco celebrating their engagement with laughs and a hug.
In the comment section, Blanco, 36, wrote: “Hey wait… that’s my wife” as congratulations pour in for the lovebirds.
Gomez, 32, and Blanco had known each other for years having collaborated on the 2019 single ‘I Can’t Get Enough’ with Tainy and J Balvin. They started dating in June 2023.
In August 2023, the singer released the Blanco-produced single Single Soon’. Last December, Gomez confirmed their relationship when she liked fan account posts on Instagram of the pair. She also commented “He is my absolute everything in my heart on one”.
In June, Gomez said she plans to adopt children if she is still single at age 35.
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