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7 reasons people choose not to have kids
Choosing not to have children is a personal decision that more people are openly making and discussing.
The reasons behind this choice are varied and complex, reflecting changes in societal norms, personal values, and global awareness.
Here are seven common reasons why some people opt out of parenthood:
1. Personal freedom and independence
Many people value their personal freedom and independence highly. They enjoy the ability to make life choices without the constraints that parenting inherently brings. This might include spontaneous travel, career choices, or simply the luxury of quiet and personal space—luxuries that are often limited when raising children.
2. Financial considerations
Raising a child is a significant financial commitment. From basic needs like food and clothing to education and healthcare, the costs can be daunting. For some, the financial responsibility of parenthood is a deterrent, especially in uncertain economic times or when they have existing financial goals like homeownership or retirement savings.
3. Environmental concerns
Amid growing concerns about overpopulation and environmental degradation, some people choose not to have children as a conscious decision to reduce their carbon footprint. They might view it as a personal contribution to mitigating environmental issues, focusing on sustainability and conservation.
4. Career focus
For those deeply committed to their careers or personal projects, the time and energy required for parenting can seem like a barrier to achieving their professional or creative goals. They might choose not to have children to fully dedicate themselves to their passions and ambitions without the split focus that parenting often requires.
5. Lifestyle preferences
Some people have lifestyle preferences that aren’t compatible with raising children. They may prioritise a minimalist lifestyle, frequent travel, or social engagements that would be challenging to maintain with children. Their decision not to have kids is often rooted in a desire to maintain a certain way of life.
6. Concerns about the world
With issues like political instability, climate change, and social injustices, some people are hesitant to bring children into a world that seems fraught with challenges. They might worry about the quality of life and the kinds of challenges their children would face, influencing their decision against parenthood.
7. Personal or health-related reasons
For some, the decision not to have children is based on personal health concerns or genetic conditions they fear passing on to offspring. Others may have had challenging childhoods themselves and fear they might not be able to provide the supportive environment they believe every child deserves.
Relationships
Actress Stephanie Okereke-Linus, husband celebrate 13th wedding anniversary
Nollywood actress Stephanie Okereke-Linus and her husband, Linus Idahosa, on Sunday, celebrated their 13th wedding anniversary.
The actress took to her Instagram page, @stephanielinus, to celebrate the milestone with a display of a picture of herself and her husband.
She wrote, “Cheers to 🥂Thirteen years of amazingness and building beautiful memories and dreams together.
“Each year, always better than the last.
“Happy 13th Anniversary, to us🌹” #Thirteen Years Strong #Happy Anniversary.”
Some fans also took to the comment section to congratulate the couple.
@Joycekalu said, “Happy anniversary sis.”
@Yomicasual, with an emoji wrote, “🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.”
@Kelechiamadiobi said, “Big congratulations.”
Also, @DewumiHappy wrote “Happy anniversary 😍😍.”
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the couple got married in April, 21,2012, in Paris, France, at a private wedding ceremony.
Relationships
Ashanti confirms pregnancy as she announces engagement to Nelly
Ashanti, an American singer and songwriter, has turned to Instagram to announce her engagement to rapper Nelly.
She also announced that they are expecting a kid together.
This comes after they reignited their relationship last year.
The pair announced their engagement and pregnancy to Essence.
“This new year of my life is such a blessing full of love, hope, and anticipation,” Ashanti told the outlet. “Motherhood is something that I have looked forward to, and sharing this with my family, fiancé, and loyal fans, who have been so supportive of my career, is an amazing experience.”
The “Foolish” singer also posted a video on social media advertising her and Nelly’s brand, Proov, which offers an at-home pregnancy test. In the footage, Ashanti appears to be getting ready to walk onstage when someone asks how much time she will need.
See the video below.
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‘I didn’t do it’ — Korra Obidi kicks as ex-husband accuses her of cheating during pregnancy
Korra Obidi, the Nigerian dancer, has denied a claim by Justin Dean, her ex-husband, that she cheated on him while pregnant with their second child.
In a video, Dean said Korra traveled to Nigeria for a friend’s wedding when she was five months pregnant.
He alleged that Korra slept with her friend’s fiance. He also shared what he claimed to be chats between his ex-wife and the man.
“She was sleeping around while pregnant with my child”
— 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) April 17, 2024
– Dr Justin Dean pic.twitter.com/qNazsKnF6e
“Korra, my ex-wife went to Nigeria for her friend’s wedding and slept with this woman’s fiance, while she was 5 months pregnant with our daughter,” he said.
“I was so upset when I found out that she has been sleeping around. It was very risky. She could have contracted SDTs while she was pregnant. That is a big deal.”
Reacting to Dean’s claim of infidelity in an Instagram post on Wednesday, Korra she “did not do it”.
“Long story short, I didn’t do it. If you believe, your papa papaaa,” she wrote.
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